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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 398780" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>easy child/difficult child has to make a decision within the next two days. He is either going to opt</p><p>for his friends ("I don't call them friends...I call them family") or for our choice of taking a stab at a new path. He and "his family" think I am "manipulating" him and</p><p>"want to run his life". Surprise...his "Mother" a/k/a GFGmom agrees.</p><p> </p><p>Truthfully (and without tears but with a heavy heart) I think he's going to flush his easy child side and go difficult child. He "doesn't care if he is homeless" "will always have meals from his family" and "doesn't want to leave the life he lives".</p><p> </p><p>It's going to be hard to let hope go. If he doesn't pay big bucks to Probation on Wed he will be "violated" and sent to jail. Then within a week the Judge can decide to put him put him on a payment plan. That means, of course, he will remain in the</p><p>system and be subject to harrassment by the local police.</p><p> </p><p>I can't say I'm shocked but it's his choice. husband and I will always love him but we will no longer cover his back and walk at his side. If he didn't have the Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) perhaps it wouldn't be so heartwrenching. Who knows. Maybe it would be.</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, I'd like some subtle CD support this week. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 398780, member: 35"] easy child/difficult child has to make a decision within the next two days. He is either going to opt for his friends ("I don't call them friends...I call them family") or for our choice of taking a stab at a new path. He and "his family" think I am "manipulating" him and "want to run his life". Surprise...his "Mother" a/k/a GFGmom agrees. Truthfully (and without tears but with a heavy heart) I think he's going to flush his easy child side and go difficult child. He "doesn't care if he is homeless" "will always have meals from his family" and "doesn't want to leave the life he lives". It's going to be hard to let hope go. If he doesn't pay big bucks to Probation on Wed he will be "violated" and sent to jail. Then within a week the Judge can decide to put him put him on a payment plan. That means, of course, he will remain in the system and be subject to harrassment by the local police. I can't say I'm shocked but it's his choice. husband and I will always love him but we will no longer cover his back and walk at his side. If he didn't have the Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) perhaps it wouldn't be so heartwrenching. Who knows. Maybe it would be. Anyway, I'd like some subtle CD support this week. DDD [/QUOTE]
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