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Daughter woke up in hotel room... no clue how she got there.
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 407413" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Bean, </p><p> </p><p>I'm sorry for you honey - Really sorry. And having been here with adopted daughter years ago. I'm going to throw out for consideration what we went through. We would get the call. </p><p> </p><p>'Momma? Can you come get me I'm at Motel 8.' </p><p>'How did...never mind. UGH...(again) which one?' </p><p>'UH the one with the pancake place in front, and across from the BiPolar (BP)...I can see that.' </p><p>'YOU DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU ARE? AGAIN? DEAR #*#(*. OKAY GIVE ME 45 minutes that's on the other sideof town." </p><p> </p><p>So I get there - and do the - 'we need to take you to the ER' speech too. And of course K throws a bloody fit. BLOODY - screaming, yelling, kicking my car.....like I've kidnapped her....threatening to roll out of the door and opening the car (to which I tell her - do you want me to push you? and I speed up?) UGH...shut the danged door. And I take her smelly person home. She's high, she stinks, and she's ungrateful. The round trip ride is over 1.5 hours. She gets out, slams the door and flips me off. I tell her she's lovely - and leave. </p><p> </p><p>This goes on, and on, and on - each time - we threaten to take her blacked-out self to the ER. I call her BIO Mom and say "This has got to stop." Bio Mom agrees but says I'm the only one she'll have come get her morning, noon, night....and finally I decide that I can't do this any more. Then one night - before a very tragic incident -------she calls and says in slurred, drunken words, she's "done', but cant remember where she is...the guy is gone, and she's crying. Can I come get her? Her Mom won't. Her Friends won't. She hates everyone. Can't anyone understand her? I said I would, and hung up and called 911. I told the police that she had no idea who had been in the hotel room with her, she was under age, drunk, high and possibly been raped. Cops don't take NO for an answer as to taking you to the ER for a rape kit. I told them her Mother couldn't do anything with her. They did a rape kit, called her Mother, Mother had to go to the ER. And Mother took her home. They also told her they would arrest HER for false report next time for conscentual sex.</p><p> </p><p>Later K would admit that she had EVERY clue she knew where she was and who she was with - she just needed a ride. THAT's why she went so berzerk when we mentioned the ER. She didn't want to get the guys in trouble because a lot of the time they were married. ........Just something to keep in the back of your mind. </p><p> </p><p>I'm so sorry...Huge hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 407413, member: 4964"] Bean, I'm sorry for you honey - Really sorry. And having been here with adopted daughter years ago. I'm going to throw out for consideration what we went through. We would get the call. 'Momma? Can you come get me I'm at Motel 8.' 'How did...never mind. UGH...(again) which one?' 'UH the one with the pancake place in front, and across from the BiPolar (BP)...I can see that.' 'YOU DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU ARE? AGAIN? DEAR #*#(*. OKAY GIVE ME 45 minutes that's on the other sideof town." So I get there - and do the - 'we need to take you to the ER' speech too. And of course K throws a bloody fit. BLOODY - screaming, yelling, kicking my car.....like I've kidnapped her....threatening to roll out of the door and opening the car (to which I tell her - do you want me to push you? and I speed up?) UGH...shut the danged door. And I take her smelly person home. She's high, she stinks, and she's ungrateful. The round trip ride is over 1.5 hours. She gets out, slams the door and flips me off. I tell her she's lovely - and leave. This goes on, and on, and on - each time - we threaten to take her blacked-out self to the ER. I call her BIO Mom and say "This has got to stop." Bio Mom agrees but says I'm the only one she'll have come get her morning, noon, night....and finally I decide that I can't do this any more. Then one night - before a very tragic incident -------she calls and says in slurred, drunken words, she's "done', but cant remember where she is...the guy is gone, and she's crying. Can I come get her? Her Mom won't. Her Friends won't. She hates everyone. Can't anyone understand her? I said I would, and hung up and called 911. I told the police that she had no idea who had been in the hotel room with her, she was under age, drunk, high and possibly been raped. Cops don't take NO for an answer as to taking you to the ER for a rape kit. I told them her Mother couldn't do anything with her. They did a rape kit, called her Mother, Mother had to go to the ER. And Mother took her home. They also told her they would arrest HER for false report next time for conscentual sex. Later K would admit that she had EVERY clue she knew where she was and who she was with - she just needed a ride. THAT's why she went so berzerk when we mentioned the ER. She didn't want to get the guys in trouble because a lot of the time they were married. ........Just something to keep in the back of your mind. I'm so sorry...Huge hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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