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Daughter woke up in hotel room... no clue how she got there.
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 407627" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Bean, </p><p> </p><p>This is K all over! OMG - all over. K started at 14.....Yup....and the things that would come out of her mouth? WOW.....It was supposedly done to give that all over "I'm a woman,,,listen to me, I drink, I have sex, I do this, I do that, I'm all out for that....OH I do that, I can do it with 3 men, I do that." and you would just sit there while she would jump in on private conversations with grown women and interject her "KNOWLEDGE" of sexual relations. </p><p> </p><p>To me? At first I sat there and well - honestly HOW do you NOT sit there with shock and blatent jaw dropped on your face? Her Mother of course was VERY promiscuous, and the whole famdamily was - 'open' so to them this was a little 'early' but for the most part 'normal'? "I was just floored. So imagine her surprise when I told her I waited till I got married. SO SQUARE. Yeah - well you're a ........little ....did you ever go to church? ISH. sigh. LONG sigh. </p><p> </p><p>Anyway - once I figured out that Jezebell was just really doing this for attention? It became clear to me what her game was. I mean once you do this at 14 for attention WHAT do you do for an encore? I began tape recording her - then when she had moments of clarity? I'd set the tape down and play it back for her. She HATED that. Of course it was a lot of 'put on' she wasn't 'that drunk' most times - and a lot of the time she was really putting it on....like I said most of the times in later years the 'high' was sleeping with married men. THEY would rent the room and the reason she would cry wolf is because they couldn't take her home - WHAT if someone saw that little so and so in the truck with him? Divorces were expensive....so she would pretend the "I don't know where I am" game. Or if she got bored - 2 or more. And I'm sure there was money involved or later drugs. When booze and drugs got involved - I knew because she'd call the day later - because the maid had come in and told her TIME TO GO. Or pay for another day. AND she was cranky. When we suggested the ER because of her MEMORY LOSS? Oh she'd come unglued. THAT's how we knew - either ther were VERY illegal drugs in her system because they WILL do a blood test or the man was married. </p><p> </p><p>Eventually? Her little game cost her - she was taken out on a country road, gang raped repeatedly by three men, and left. She was beaten but not badly, and the men were never charged. She knew who they were, and tried to press charges - but with her reputation? Five years of being the town ****? Yeah - make that stick. And that's exactly what was brough to court that if she pursued this? They already had statements of OVER 100 men who would come to court and swear they had sex with her and that the sex had that night was not forced. It was paid for. She dropped the case, has been arrested twice since for shoplifting, and something else - bad checks maybe. </p><p> </p><p>Since then? She's had 2 children that she does not take care of - both premies - she's lost 4. Her Bio mother finally quit running around because she's had to raise both her girls. I haven't had much contact with her in about 5-6 years, she did graduate with an associates degree - but she's a mess. I told her if she ever got herself straightened out - to come see me. So far? No visit. She's nearly 30 - </p><p> </p><p>When I have run into her? She can't look me in the eyes, has nothing to say much.....I just tell her I love her, and hope that someday she realizes that she has the ability to continue to do great things....</p><p></p><p>Maybe with the modern age of video phones - you should video tape your daughters little tyrades once and play it back for her? People rarely like to see themselves act.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 407627, member: 4964"] Bean, This is K all over! OMG - all over. K started at 14.....Yup....and the things that would come out of her mouth? WOW.....It was supposedly done to give that all over "I'm a woman,,,listen to me, I drink, I have sex, I do this, I do that, I'm all out for that....OH I do that, I can do it with 3 men, I do that." and you would just sit there while she would jump in on private conversations with grown women and interject her "KNOWLEDGE" of sexual relations. To me? At first I sat there and well - honestly HOW do you NOT sit there with shock and blatent jaw dropped on your face? Her Mother of course was VERY promiscuous, and the whole famdamily was - 'open' so to them this was a little 'early' but for the most part 'normal'? "I was just floored. So imagine her surprise when I told her I waited till I got married. SO SQUARE. Yeah - well you're a ........little ....did you ever go to church? ISH. sigh. LONG sigh. Anyway - once I figured out that Jezebell was just really doing this for attention? It became clear to me what her game was. I mean once you do this at 14 for attention WHAT do you do for an encore? I began tape recording her - then when she had moments of clarity? I'd set the tape down and play it back for her. She HATED that. Of course it was a lot of 'put on' she wasn't 'that drunk' most times - and a lot of the time she was really putting it on....like I said most of the times in later years the 'high' was sleeping with married men. THEY would rent the room and the reason she would cry wolf is because they couldn't take her home - WHAT if someone saw that little so and so in the truck with him? Divorces were expensive....so she would pretend the "I don't know where I am" game. Or if she got bored - 2 or more. And I'm sure there was money involved or later drugs. When booze and drugs got involved - I knew because she'd call the day later - because the maid had come in and told her TIME TO GO. Or pay for another day. AND she was cranky. When we suggested the ER because of her MEMORY LOSS? Oh she'd come unglued. THAT's how we knew - either ther were VERY illegal drugs in her system because they WILL do a blood test or the man was married. Eventually? Her little game cost her - she was taken out on a country road, gang raped repeatedly by three men, and left. She was beaten but not badly, and the men were never charged. She knew who they were, and tried to press charges - but with her reputation? Five years of being the town ****? Yeah - make that stick. And that's exactly what was brough to court that if she pursued this? They already had statements of OVER 100 men who would come to court and swear they had sex with her and that the sex had that night was not forced. It was paid for. She dropped the case, has been arrested twice since for shoplifting, and something else - bad checks maybe. Since then? She's had 2 children that she does not take care of - both premies - she's lost 4. Her Bio mother finally quit running around because she's had to raise both her girls. I haven't had much contact with her in about 5-6 years, she did graduate with an associates degree - but she's a mess. I told her if she ever got herself straightened out - to come see me. So far? No visit. She's nearly 30 - When I have run into her? She can't look me in the eyes, has nothing to say much.....I just tell her I love her, and hope that someday she realizes that she has the ability to continue to do great things.... Maybe with the modern age of video phones - you should video tape your daughters little tyrades once and play it back for her? People rarely like to see themselves act. [/QUOTE]
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