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<blockquote data-quote="DavidWH" data-source="post: 111444" data-attributes="member: 4398"><p>DDD - </p><p></p><p>First I think maybe you see now from others, I for sure am not walking away from family... nor would I want my Son to feel like I am, it was as others have said... I simply am not going to be able to talk to my family about my Justin and his treatment - </p><p></p><p>You are right in remebering my difficult feelings toward my Mom about her involvement in his life... while it is great for him (and her I am sure) the demand of ownership of him is what is hard to take... even more so when I consider she has 6 other bio grandkids and 4 step grandkids... that she has nothing to do with - Justin is the only one that she has a relationship with and I find that sad.. for her AND the kids</p><p></p><p>a little more history:</p><p></p><p>I am not sure how it happened, but I am 2nd of 4 kids and I am the only one that gives a hoot about "family" (Justin is the same as I in this) I need family want family and feel it is most important... I am close to my Mom and my Younger Brother (kid number 4) - I have not talked to my older brother (kid 1) in over 8 years... why? because he does not understand how I deal with something that happened to me when I was a teenager.. that should never happen to a child... no matter what I try(ed) in the past .. he chooses not to be a part of my or the other family members life - even my Mom she never did anything but try to protect me and he has turned on her for that... </p><p>Same with child 2 my younder sister.. have not talked to her in about 6 years... have tried to make ammends after she said and did somethings to me - that she should not have... funny however now... after finally giving up early this year on her and coming to terms with it with in me... she has made contact with my mom and now my mom is saying I should accept her saying she is sorry and build a relationship up again... (I have soooo many times with this girl.. in the past.. I can not find it in me to do it again only to be waiting on her next stunt) - mom wants me to allow her to at least write Justin in Residential Treatment Center (RTC).. I said NO WAY... maybe I am wrong... but where was she the last 6 years - she never attempted to contact her Nephew... </p><p></p><p>My dad.. the evil easy child of ___ this man will make my blood boil.. this is the root of all evil... funny thing..... HE IS A MINISTER!!! - the most hateful physco path in the world... he blames ME for what happen to me as a young teen... said I liked it!!! he has 4 bio grand kids he has never even met... one is an adult now!!! </p><p></p><p>However I was vedry close to his dad... that died in 1976 .. I have held that relationship I had with my grandad very close to my heart... and I made the choice right after Justin went into Residential Treatment Center (RTC)... to offer him a relationship with my Son... and blow me away.. he accepted.. and even came to visit him on the first family day.. at Residential Treatment Center (RTC).. first time he saw Justin since he is 18 months old.. how sad it that! but if Justin can build a relationship with him of some kind that is positive.. more power to Justin.. they are still writing back and forth.. even though I have nothing to do with the man... never will</p><p></p><p>As far as me not able to talk about Residential Treatment Center (RTC) with family (brother and mom) they love me yes I know.. they love justin in some way I know.. but they can not see the sickness made Justin do this... and I try to say over and over to them.. put yourself in his shoes... Look at what this childs own mom has done to him.. could you IMAGINE!!! they want to protect me FROM Justin... well I am sorry I do not need protection.. I helped make Justin and I fought for custody I woke up and fed him and changed his poopy diapers and darn it he loves me just for being his daddy... even if it kills me I am going to be there for this kid till he is able to do this life on his own</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DavidWH, post: 111444, member: 4398"] DDD - First I think maybe you see now from others, I for sure am not walking away from family... nor would I want my Son to feel like I am, it was as others have said... I simply am not going to be able to talk to my family about my Justin and his treatment - You are right in remebering my difficult feelings toward my Mom about her involvement in his life... while it is great for him (and her I am sure) the demand of ownership of him is what is hard to take... even more so when I consider she has 6 other bio grandkids and 4 step grandkids... that she has nothing to do with - Justin is the only one that she has a relationship with and I find that sad.. for her AND the kids a little more history: I am not sure how it happened, but I am 2nd of 4 kids and I am the only one that gives a hoot about "family" (Justin is the same as I in this) I need family want family and feel it is most important... I am close to my Mom and my Younger Brother (kid number 4) - I have not talked to my older brother (kid 1) in over 8 years... why? because he does not understand how I deal with something that happened to me when I was a teenager.. that should never happen to a child... no matter what I try(ed) in the past .. he chooses not to be a part of my or the other family members life - even my Mom she never did anything but try to protect me and he has turned on her for that... Same with child 2 my younder sister.. have not talked to her in about 6 years... have tried to make ammends after she said and did somethings to me - that she should not have... funny however now... after finally giving up early this year on her and coming to terms with it with in me... she has made contact with my mom and now my mom is saying I should accept her saying she is sorry and build a relationship up again... (I have soooo many times with this girl.. in the past.. I can not find it in me to do it again only to be waiting on her next stunt) - mom wants me to allow her to at least write Justin in Residential Treatment Center (RTC).. I said NO WAY... maybe I am wrong... but where was she the last 6 years - she never attempted to contact her Nephew... My dad.. the evil easy child of ___ this man will make my blood boil.. this is the root of all evil... funny thing..... HE IS A MINISTER!!! - the most hateful physco path in the world... he blames ME for what happen to me as a young teen... said I liked it!!! he has 4 bio grand kids he has never even met... one is an adult now!!! However I was vedry close to his dad... that died in 1976 .. I have held that relationship I had with my grandad very close to my heart... and I made the choice right after Justin went into Residential Treatment Center (RTC)... to offer him a relationship with my Son... and blow me away.. he accepted.. and even came to visit him on the first family day.. at Residential Treatment Center (RTC).. first time he saw Justin since he is 18 months old.. how sad it that! but if Justin can build a relationship with him of some kind that is positive.. more power to Justin.. they are still writing back and forth.. even though I have nothing to do with the man... never will As far as me not able to talk about Residential Treatment Center (RTC) with family (brother and mom) they love me yes I know.. they love justin in some way I know.. but they can not see the sickness made Justin do this... and I try to say over and over to them.. put yourself in his shoes... Look at what this childs own mom has done to him.. could you IMAGINE!!! they want to protect me FROM Justin... well I am sorry I do not need protection.. I helped make Justin and I fought for custody I woke up and fed him and changed his poopy diapers and darn it he loves me just for being his daddy... even if it kills me I am going to be there for this kid till he is able to do this life on his own [/QUOTE]
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