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DCFS came last night - update to innappropriate touching with siblings
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 168639" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You absolutely had no choice but to tell. If he would have done it again (and few kids only perp once), you and hub could have gotten into a ton of legal trouble and lost all the kids. When our adopted son perped on our younger kids, he did leave (we wanted him out too--my kids were terrified of him). He was subsequently charged with First Degree Assault on a Minor (he himself was thirteen) and sent to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) where I assume they tried to help him. They found him trying to perp on another kid there--they had 24/7 cameras rolling. We realized after he left that things had been far worse than we'd thought. Your daughter may spill mores beans to you or to her therapist, but she MUST be in therapy. Kids tend to believe, in their gut, that they were abused because they asked for it, which is why they are not forthcoming about their horrible experiences. Sometimes out of home placement is the only safe avenue for our family. (((Hugs))) I know how you feel.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 168639, member: 1550"] You absolutely had no choice but to tell. If he would have done it again (and few kids only perp once), you and hub could have gotten into a ton of legal trouble and lost all the kids. When our adopted son perped on our younger kids, he did leave (we wanted him out too--my kids were terrified of him). He was subsequently charged with First Degree Assault on a Minor (he himself was thirteen) and sent to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) where I assume they tried to help him. They found him trying to perp on another kid there--they had 24/7 cameras rolling. We realized after he left that things had been far worse than we'd thought. Your daughter may spill mores beans to you or to her therapist, but she MUST be in therapy. Kids tend to believe, in their gut, that they were abused because they asked for it, which is why they are not forthcoming about their horrible experiences. Sometimes out of home placement is the only safe avenue for our family. (((Hugs))) I know how you feel. [/QUOTE]
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