Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Dear Alice Farmer;
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 186768" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I am guessing - because I have spanked in both "modes" - and when I spanked when I was angry it was because I WAS NOT in control and my punishment was NOT appropriate. </p><p> </p><p>When I said Okay - it's time for your punishment and it was AFTER I had cooled down? I was able to deliver three swats to the fat part of the kiester, in a controlled way. And not an out of control, crazy woman chasing a child through the house yelling - WHEN I CATCH you =YOU are going to really get it. </p><p> </p><p>I dont' find anything wrong with swats on the butt. I did let go once and popped Dude in the mouth. It was a very knee jerk reaction. It accomplished something - made me feel like a jerk for not being in control.</p><p> </p><p>I'm not saying one or the other is correct for every child - I'm just saying when I did spank - without being angry - I felt I actually was giving a punishment that fit. When I spanked and was NOT in control? It made me feel about () big.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 186768, member: 4964"] I am guessing - because I have spanked in both "modes" - and when I spanked when I was angry it was because I WAS NOT in control and my punishment was NOT appropriate. When I said Okay - it's time for your punishment and it was AFTER I had cooled down? I was able to deliver three swats to the fat part of the kiester, in a controlled way. And not an out of control, crazy woman chasing a child through the house yelling - WHEN I CATCH you =YOU are going to really get it. I dont' find anything wrong with swats on the butt. I did let go once and popped Dude in the mouth. It was a very knee jerk reaction. It accomplished something - made me feel like a jerk for not being in control. I'm not saying one or the other is correct for every child - I'm just saying when I did spank - without being angry - I felt I actually was giving a punishment that fit. When I spanked and was NOT in control? It made me feel about () big. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Dear Alice Farmer;
Top