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<blockquote data-quote="saving grace" data-source="post: 27928" data-attributes="member: 1538"><p>Janet</p><p></p><p>I am just catching up with this post. I am so sorry this is happening. My thoughts were while reading your post, it seems tht Ant is RE acting to to something, it very well could be that he wants the freedom to be "with" women, he wants to feel more like a man but is scared to venture off on his own, resents you because he needs you so much. I DO NOT believe that Ant doesnt appreciate you, I know he does You know he does, he is just reacting to something and they always hurt the ones they love the most because we are the ones that they know will always be here no matter what. He is pushing your buttons. It takes so much energy, so much more than we can imagine for them to stay sober, everyday things are work for them, he is tired and frustrated and coming to a fork in the road and these guys do not know how to problem solve, they do not make good decisions. He is feelin weak, thats why he went to Dad, because he knows he can be weak and the Dad wont care. </p><p>Do you think he could be reacting to any of the personal stuff you were going through with boyfriend, did he know? </p><p></p><p>I think it is time he gets out on his own, its scary and hard but he cant relapse everytime something is hard. He has the ground work now he needs to finish the job.</p><p></p><p>Grace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="saving grace, post: 27928, member: 1538"] Janet I am just catching up with this post. I am so sorry this is happening. My thoughts were while reading your post, it seems tht Ant is RE acting to to something, it very well could be that he wants the freedom to be "with" women, he wants to feel more like a man but is scared to venture off on his own, resents you because he needs you so much. I DO NOT believe that Ant doesnt appreciate you, I know he does You know he does, he is just reacting to something and they always hurt the ones they love the most because we are the ones that they know will always be here no matter what. He is pushing your buttons. It takes so much energy, so much more than we can imagine for them to stay sober, everyday things are work for them, he is tired and frustrated and coming to a fork in the road and these guys do not know how to problem solve, they do not make good decisions. He is feelin weak, thats why he went to Dad, because he knows he can be weak and the Dad wont care. Do you think he could be reacting to any of the personal stuff you were going through with boyfriend, did he know? I think it is time he gets out on his own, its scary and hard but he cant relapse everytime something is hard. He has the ground work now he needs to finish the job. Grace [/QUOTE]
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