Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Depressing incident...but I need to post it for therapy
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 349281" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Hang in there. Try to not let it engage you, or it will only hurt you deeper.</p><p></p><p>What can't be changed must be endured. Sorry. </p><p></p><p>But at the same time, don't ask anything of him, don't expect anything of him. Don't offer anything either - because for him to accept it, would be a gift to you and for whatever reason, he shouldn't be put in that position or it gives him more power to hurt you further. </p><p></p><p>YOU know there is a lovely child in the world who wouldn't be here, if you hadn't given birth to him. It would be lovely for you to have a picture, but don't ask for one. Instead, visualise the grandchild for yourself. Maybe draw the face you think the child would have. </p><p></p><p>There has been a lot of hurt caused, don't leave yourself or your current family open to more pain.</p><p></p><p>hugs.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 349281, member: 1991"] Hang in there. Try to not let it engage you, or it will only hurt you deeper. What can't be changed must be endured. Sorry. But at the same time, don't ask anything of him, don't expect anything of him. Don't offer anything either - because for him to accept it, would be a gift to you and for whatever reason, he shouldn't be put in that position or it gives him more power to hurt you further. YOU know there is a lovely child in the world who wouldn't be here, if you hadn't given birth to him. It would be lovely for you to have a picture, but don't ask for one. Instead, visualise the grandchild for yourself. Maybe draw the face you think the child would have. There has been a lot of hurt caused, don't leave yourself or your current family open to more pain. hugs. Marg [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Depressing incident...but I need to post it for therapy
Top