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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 330305" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Steely, I think you need to remind yourself of something I'm sure you already kknow: Single women often want a gentleman friend to go out with and have fun, have dinner with ocassionally, etc, thinking it's not intended to be anything more than casual, but then we get our feelings hurt because they don't fall in love with us, or they go out and have this same sort of casual relationship with someone else, and they aren't treating us like it was anything more than a casual situation with no emotional feeling toward us- just convenient. Most of us have been there! </p><p></p><p>I think it would do you good to takee some time and decide if you really want and are cut out for casual relationships. If so, then don't let your ego and feelings get caught up in it. If you are really needing something else in your life (ie, to build your self esteem or feel validated by someone), I think you need to make real effort to find other ways to pursue that. </p><p></p><p>Just my 2 cents!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 330305, member: 3699"] Steely, I think you need to remind yourself of something I'm sure you already kknow: Single women often want a gentleman friend to go out with and have fun, have dinner with ocassionally, etc, thinking it's not intended to be anything more than casual, but then we get our feelings hurt because they don't fall in love with us, or they go out and have this same sort of casual relationship with someone else, and they aren't treating us like it was anything more than a casual situation with no emotional feeling toward us- just convenient. Most of us have been there! I think it would do you good to takee some time and decide if you really want and are cut out for casual relationships. If so, then don't let your ego and feelings get caught up in it. If you are really needing something else in your life (ie, to build your self esteem or feel validated by someone), I think you need to make real effort to find other ways to pursue that. Just my 2 cents! [/QUOTE]
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