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<blockquote data-quote="CynthiaE" data-source="post: 516387" data-attributes="member: 14191"><p>Afternoon DDD, I've felt like I've been using bribery, sometimes. It's a difficult balance. Too much or not enough. But at the same time I want to reward good behavior. I also enjoy doing fun things with her. Like going to the park and such, we use such outings as a reward that doesn't cost much. Is this wrong? It's a difficult thing to figure out. </p><p></p><p>If she gets it, it will be the first beyond her beginning evalutation, but things are so desperate as it is. We had two issues today at school, but she managed to calm herself down by the time I got to school. She did a good job of holding her temper. A first for her. </p><p>Their was no cussing, screaming, or hitting. It was a small..hopeful improvement.</p><p>I can only pray tomorrow is the same. </p><p></p><p>She did however, throw a book in the general direction of a teacher. </p><p></p><p>Due to that, she lost computer privledges for the evening.</p><p></p><p>She is currently struggling with her homework while I checked the board--advice would be helpful. I am praying for tomorrow, at this point, praying is all I feel like I can do. </p><p></p><p>Desperately Lost</p><p></p><p>--Cynthia</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CynthiaE, post: 516387, member: 14191"] Afternoon DDD, I've felt like I've been using bribery, sometimes. It's a difficult balance. Too much or not enough. But at the same time I want to reward good behavior. I also enjoy doing fun things with her. Like going to the park and such, we use such outings as a reward that doesn't cost much. Is this wrong? It's a difficult thing to figure out. If she gets it, it will be the first beyond her beginning evalutation, but things are so desperate as it is. We had two issues today at school, but she managed to calm herself down by the time I got to school. She did a good job of holding her temper. A first for her. Their was no cussing, screaming, or hitting. It was a small..hopeful improvement. I can only pray tomorrow is the same. She did however, throw a book in the general direction of a teacher. Due to that, she lost computer privledges for the evening. She is currently struggling with her homework while I checked the board--advice would be helpful. I am praying for tomorrow, at this point, praying is all I feel like I can do. Desperately Lost --Cynthia [/QUOTE]
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