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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 557442" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Dear NoHope, I am so sorry you are going through this terrible experience with your son. I am also glad you found us and recognize that you're not alone. There are likely other parents here who have a similar experience and will be along to give you some good solid advice based on their experience. My 2 cents are these: First, call the police, he is threatening you, he is violent, <strong>press charges. He is an adult now. </strong>Then find out what the eviction laws in your state are. Here in Ca. you have to formally evict someone, even your own child, with legal documents through the court system. Do it. Third, file a restraining order because when he violates it you can then call the police. Fourth, when he is held by the cops for threatening you, change all the locks and if you can afford it, get a really good alarm system. Get yourself educated, find out the laws to protect yourself. Go down to the police station and find out your rights, exactly what you need to do. You are being held hostage by this kid and it needs to stop<strong> right now.</strong> Once you take all of those steps, you will cease to be a victim of him and regain your power. Once you do that, you can take your life back and begin to get support about YOU, and what you can do for YOU. First take care of the violence, that's the most important thing, get yourself safe. Then you can begin to pick up the pieces of your life and begin detaching from him in healthy ways. But he needs to be contained immediately. This has to stop <strong>NOW</strong>. You cannot live like this any longer. Take the necessary steps to get safe and keep posting here. As you can see, many of us have been in your shoes. There is much experience here. We welcome you. I'm glad you found us. Sending caring hugs your way. <u>Go take care of yourself TODAY!</u></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 557442, member: 13542"] Dear NoHope, I am so sorry you are going through this terrible experience with your son. I am also glad you found us and recognize that you're not alone. There are likely other parents here who have a similar experience and will be along to give you some good solid advice based on their experience. My 2 cents are these: First, call the police, he is threatening you, he is violent, [B]press charges. He is an adult now. [/B]Then find out what the eviction laws in your state are. Here in Ca. you have to formally evict someone, even your own child, with legal documents through the court system. Do it. Third, file a restraining order because when he violates it you can then call the police. Fourth, when he is held by the cops for threatening you, change all the locks and if you can afford it, get a really good alarm system. Get yourself educated, find out the laws to protect yourself. Go down to the police station and find out your rights, exactly what you need to do. You are being held hostage by this kid and it needs to stop[B] right now.[/B] Once you take all of those steps, you will cease to be a victim of him and regain your power. Once you do that, you can take your life back and begin to get support about YOU, and what you can do for YOU. First take care of the violence, that's the most important thing, get yourself safe. Then you can begin to pick up the pieces of your life and begin detaching from him in healthy ways. But he needs to be contained immediately. This has to stop [B]NOW[/B]. You cannot live like this any longer. Take the necessary steps to get safe and keep posting here. As you can see, many of us have been in your shoes. There is much experience here. We welcome you. I'm glad you found us. Sending caring hugs your way. [U]Go take care of yourself TODAY![/U] [/QUOTE]
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