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<blockquote data-quote="NoHope" data-source="post: 557603" data-attributes="member: 15411"><p>Hello everyone,</p><p>First of all, I just wanted to give you all my heartfelt thanks for being so responsive to my first post and public cry for help.</p><p>I have read each and every one of your replies.</p><p>An update...yesterday morning...after the entire 14-15 hour day of rage - he woke up and said Good morning to me and tried to hug me.</p><p>It was like nothing had ever happened. He then left and was gone until about 3am today.</p><p>Three of my friends called me last night and met with me this morning. They are all concerned and gave me much of the same</p><p>advice you gave to me.</p><p>While I was waiting to meet with my friends, my son became angry because I wouldn't give him money or a ride and he kicked and broke</p><p>one of my favorite cabinets. Just completely ruined it. I also found a deep scratch on my car that wasn't there yesterday. I am not sure he did it,</p><p>but I am suspicious.</p><p>I met with the chief of police of my town and another officer. They also gave me the same advice. </p><p>Oh, I also called the DV center and they told me to call the police and get a protection order.</p><p>Right this minute, I am having deadbolts put on my home. The protection order is being signed by a judge at some point today.</p><p>The police are going to meet my son after work and give him a suitcase I am packing for him now and tell him he is not to come home again.</p><p>Also, they will inform him about the restraining order.</p><p>I can't even describe the feelings I have right now. A bit of relief, but a lot of fear and a terrible feeling that this is so final. I am so afraid</p><p>I will never have a relationship with my youngest again. I do love him and have loved him all of these years. I am also afraid of how this will</p><p>change our whole family.</p><p>I think I am doing the right thing, but I am feeling a very deep feeling of grief.</p><p>Thank you again , everyone. I will continue to welcome and read your responses.</p><p>NH</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="NoHope, post: 557603, member: 15411"] Hello everyone, First of all, I just wanted to give you all my heartfelt thanks for being so responsive to my first post and public cry for help. I have read each and every one of your replies. An update...yesterday morning...after the entire 14-15 hour day of rage - he woke up and said Good morning to me and tried to hug me. It was like nothing had ever happened. He then left and was gone until about 3am today. Three of my friends called me last night and met with me this morning. They are all concerned and gave me much of the same advice you gave to me. While I was waiting to meet with my friends, my son became angry because I wouldn't give him money or a ride and he kicked and broke one of my favorite cabinets. Just completely ruined it. I also found a deep scratch on my car that wasn't there yesterday. I am not sure he did it, but I am suspicious. I met with the chief of police of my town and another officer. They also gave me the same advice. Oh, I also called the DV center and they told me to call the police and get a protection order. Right this minute, I am having deadbolts put on my home. The protection order is being signed by a judge at some point today. The police are going to meet my son after work and give him a suitcase I am packing for him now and tell him he is not to come home again. Also, they will inform him about the restraining order. I can't even describe the feelings I have right now. A bit of relief, but a lot of fear and a terrible feeling that this is so final. I am so afraid I will never have a relationship with my youngest again. I do love him and have loved him all of these years. I am also afraid of how this will change our whole family. I think I am doing the right thing, but I am feeling a very deep feeling of grief. Thank you again , everyone. I will continue to welcome and read your responses. NH [/QUOTE]
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