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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 557653"><p>No Hope,</p><p></p><p>I am so glad you checked in. I also know you did the right thing. I think it comes to a point where you have to make it clear you wont take abuse from him.... if you don't do that then what lesson does he learn. He cant treat people in society like that and get away with it and so as heartbreaking as it is, this is the beginning of some very hard lessons for him.</p><p></p><p>I do understand how you feel as I felt very similarly when we kicked my son out when he was 18. Those felt like dark days and I too wondered if I would ever have a relationship with him. I cannot say things are great now because they are not... he has not gotten his life together. However our relationship is better than it was and i do believe he now knows that he is where he is because of his own actions. I dont think he is blaming me anymore.... he is now 21. So ass someone said, he is young and nothing is forever especially at this age.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 557653"] No Hope, I am so glad you checked in. I also know you did the right thing. I think it comes to a point where you have to make it clear you wont take abuse from him.... if you don't do that then what lesson does he learn. He cant treat people in society like that and get away with it and so as heartbreaking as it is, this is the beginning of some very hard lessons for him. I do understand how you feel as I felt very similarly when we kicked my son out when he was 18. Those felt like dark days and I too wondered if I would ever have a relationship with him. I cannot say things are great now because they are not... he has not gotten his life together. However our relationship is better than it was and i do believe he now knows that he is where he is because of his own actions. I dont think he is blaming me anymore.... he is now 21. So ass someone said, he is young and nothing is forever especially at this age. TL [/QUOTE]
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