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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 294971" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I had been asked recently in a PM by a lovely person if they felt they made a difference. Most <em><u>certainly</u></em> they do and have for quite as long as they have been here. It got me to thinking about how I have helped and - and I meant to tell her this, but forgot. </p><p> </p><p>If anything that I say or have said over the years helped just <u>one</u> person then I am proud of what I have done here. </p><p> </p><p>I thought since we have Detachment 101 - I would try to do something creative - this is what I got. </p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">D eveloping & maining parenting skills that help you butt out</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">E - ngaging in healthy, stress-free activities that do not involve saving our children</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">T aking time to reflect, redirect, and restablish boundaries</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">A ppreciating our children for who they are not what they are not.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">C aring for ourselves &our children and realizing that it <u>can</u> mean doing nothing </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">H ope </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">M ental health and recognizing its okay to talk about our problems & find solutions</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">E ntertain thoughts that it may never get better with our kids. Learning to deal with that.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">N ever give up loving ourselves, our children, our families, our friends.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">T ime something we cant rush or push to please our schedules and learning to wait.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">S upport system find the best one you can and learn to lean on it. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">1 I am only one person but I can make a difference</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">0 The number of people I will help if I dont ever offer assistance</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">1 The number of people I would hope to help by educating with my knowledge </span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 294971, member: 4964"] I had been asked recently in a PM by a lovely person if they felt they made a difference. Most [I][U]certainly[/U][/I] they do and have for quite as long as they have been here. It got me to thinking about how I have helped and - and I meant to tell her this, but forgot. If anything that I say or have said over the years helped just [U]one[/U] person then I am proud of what I have done here. I thought since we have Detachment 101 - I would try to do something creative - this is what I got. [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]D eveloping & maining parenting skills that help you butt out[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]E - ngaging in healthy, stress-free activities that do not involve saving our children[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]T aking time to reflect, redirect, and restablish boundaries[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]A ppreciating our children for who they are not what they are not.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]C aring for ourselves &our children and realizing that it [U]can[/U] mean doing nothing [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]H ope [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]M ental health and recognizing its okay to talk about our problems & find solutions[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]E ntertain thoughts that it may never get better with our kids. Learning to deal with that.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]N ever give up loving ourselves, our children, our families, our friends.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]T ime something we cant rush or push to please our schedules and learning to wait.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]S upport system find the best one you can and learn to lean on it. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]1 I am only one person but I can make a difference[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]0 The number of people I will help if I dont ever offer assistance[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]1 The number of people I would hope to help by educating with my knowledge [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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