difficult child is home and we are skimming along the surface of things. Slightly awkward, slightly cool now (warmer when he first got home) but no in depth conversations or more-than-superficial interaction (yet-it will come) I almost feel like he is a tolerated in law here for an extended visit. So, I think I am doing a decent job of detaching on the surface and/or in my interactions with him... ... EXCEPT that i am still antagonizing internally. And trying to figure out what it all MEANS?? But not so much that I've resorted to snooping... Frankly, I am trying to avoid popping this situation like it's a big ole zit Am I a detachment FAIL?