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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 197781" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>You may have contributed to this after all, in a way. You're implementing "Explosive Child" techniques and probably the only one who IS. Therefore, he is learning that you are his facilitator, your task is to help him. Other people - he's not so sure, especially if their responses to him are more typical of what we grew up recognising as acceptable adult-child interactions.</p><p></p><p>I did find that difficult child 3 would see k me out more, as someone who seemed to 'get' him better, someone he could count on to help him and not make him feel more frustrated.</p><p></p><p>If this is what is happening - then embrace it. It is good.</p><p></p><p>Anyone making you feel insecure about your parenting like this, especially if their own situation could be more questionable - I wonder about her motives. Is she just trying to point the finger elsewhere so people won't say to her, "Do something about your own over-clingy child!"?</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 197781, member: 1991"] You may have contributed to this after all, in a way. You're implementing "Explosive Child" techniques and probably the only one who IS. Therefore, he is learning that you are his facilitator, your task is to help him. Other people - he's not so sure, especially if their responses to him are more typical of what we grew up recognising as acceptable adult-child interactions. I did find that difficult child 3 would see k me out more, as someone who seemed to 'get' him better, someone he could count on to help him and not make him feel more frustrated. If this is what is happening - then embrace it. It is good. Anyone making you feel insecure about your parenting like this, especially if their own situation could be more questionable - I wonder about her motives. Is she just trying to point the finger elsewhere so people won't say to her, "Do something about your own over-clingy child!"? Marg [/QUOTE]
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