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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 646682" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Origami, I'm so, so sorry. I know that this is so very hard on you. We put our son out for stealing, not drugs (though I'm sure some type are involved) but still, making your child leave your home rips your heart out. </p><p> </p><p>ChildofMine said, "Feelings are not facts." This is so true and so important. Your feelings will be that YOU have done something wrong...but that is not true. The thing that will get you thru is remembering the facts. He is doing heroin in your home, where your grandchildren live. He has even stooped to using your silverware to do it. Your whole family could get in legal trouble for what he is doing. He is taking money that should be spent on his family, on his children to buy drugs. He is endangering you all. He is not asking for help. You were completely right when you said, "he's managed to find drugs living here where there aren't any other drug addicts". Remember that when your feelings tell you you've thrown him to the wolves. He is a grown man. He has made this choice. THAT is the truth. </p><p> </p><p>You are in my prayers. </p><p> </p><p>Stay strong.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 646682, member: 17309"] Origami, I'm so, so sorry. I know that this is so very hard on you. We put our son out for stealing, not drugs (though I'm sure some type are involved) but still, making your child leave your home rips your heart out. ChildofMine said, "Feelings are not facts." This is so true and so important. Your feelings will be that YOU have done something wrong...but that is not true. The thing that will get you thru is remembering the facts. He is doing heroin in your home, where your grandchildren live. He has even stooped to using your silverware to do it. Your whole family could get in legal trouble for what he is doing. He is taking money that should be spent on his family, on his children to buy drugs. He is endangering you all. He is not asking for help. You were completely right when you said, "he's managed to find drugs living here where there aren't any other drug addicts". Remember that when your feelings tell you you've thrown him to the wolves. He is a grown man. He has made this choice. THAT is the truth. You are in my prayers. Stay strong. [/QUOTE]
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