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difficult child 3 trying to play one against the other
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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 306200"><p>My husband is not difficult child's father either and I kind of experience this too. I'm currently seeing a therapist for parenting issues and husband is also going. We are trying to get on the same page and one of the things we are working on (with major decisions) is that we say "I will discuss this with SO and then we will decide and let you know". Then sometimes I'm to present our decision and sometimes husband, but we are always to present a united front. Manster has accused me of being doormat and said "why don't you ever make any of the decisions around here"...and I calmly tell him we make them together. This has been a great shift and it takes a lot of work. husband and I have a few years of bad patterns to break.</p><p></p><p>I wish you the best.</p><p></p><p>Hugs, ML</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 306200"] My husband is not difficult child's father either and I kind of experience this too. I'm currently seeing a therapist for parenting issues and husband is also going. We are trying to get on the same page and one of the things we are working on (with major decisions) is that we say "I will discuss this with SO and then we will decide and let you know". Then sometimes I'm to present our decision and sometimes husband, but we are always to present a united front. Manster has accused me of being doormat and said "why don't you ever make any of the decisions around here"...and I calmly tell him we make them together. This has been a great shift and it takes a lot of work. husband and I have a few years of bad patterns to break. I wish you the best. Hugs, ML [/QUOTE]
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