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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 264497" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Poor difficult child. </p><p></p><p>As for boyfriend being a "nice guy"...I'm sorry, but in my book, a nice guy doesn't throw his current girlfriend's feelings to the wind in favour of his ex-girlfriend, and in the process, giving ex-girlfriend the opportunity to gloat, and possibly making her an object of gossip in school.</p><p></p><p>And I don't think that dumping boyfriend lets ex-girlfriend "win". I think that your difficult child wins by showing boyfriend that she will not put up with being treated that way. If she's been willing to do anything to keep him up until now, clearly he's taking her affection for granted, and assumes that even something this hurtful will blow over. Well, she should demonstrate to him that she cannot be treated that way by walking away from the little creep.</p><p></p><p>I think of it this way...</p><p></p><p>If my husband came to me and said, "Just so you know, I asked my ex-wife to go with me to my high school reunion. Hope you don't mind." I would be beyond livid.</p><p></p><p>This is a parallel situation.</p><p></p><p>Sorry for your difficult child's hurting heart, and all the drama.</p><p></p><p>Don't let her let him walk all over her!</p><p></p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 264497, member: 3907"] Poor difficult child. As for boyfriend being a "nice guy"...I'm sorry, but in my book, a nice guy doesn't throw his current girlfriend's feelings to the wind in favour of his ex-girlfriend, and in the process, giving ex-girlfriend the opportunity to gloat, and possibly making her an object of gossip in school. And I don't think that dumping boyfriend lets ex-girlfriend "win". I think that your difficult child wins by showing boyfriend that she will not put up with being treated that way. If she's been willing to do anything to keep him up until now, clearly he's taking her affection for granted, and assumes that even something this hurtful will blow over. Well, she should demonstrate to him that she cannot be treated that way by walking away from the little creep. I think of it this way... If my husband came to me and said, "Just so you know, I asked my ex-wife to go with me to my high school reunion. Hope you don't mind." I would be beyond livid. This is a parallel situation. Sorry for your difficult child's hurting heart, and all the drama. Don't let her let him walk all over her! Trinity [/QUOTE]
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