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<blockquote data-quote="Tiapet" data-source="post: 617729" data-attributes="member: 455"><p>Aw I'm sorry! I can imagine how painful this will be for him. Though I'm not sure if ms queen's ex boyfriend was a difficult child of not, I believe he had "issues" of some sort. She just recently had to break up with him too. Normally she is the one that will call far to much and be <em>in your face</em> type. This time she met her match with him because that's how he was to her to the extreme and all this talk of "love". It overwhelmed her so much that I could not believe the intensity. She didn't want to hurt him and was afraid to break up so she thought that if she just stopped taking his calls so much and slowly backed away he'd get the hint. I advised her not to do that as I KNEW that would not be the case since every time she told him a direct statement of other things that bothered him he didn't get it. I told her be direct and break up. Didn't work. This boy cried and felt like your difficult child does very much. Then he took to being very angry and aggressive.</p><p></p><p>I can only hope it's a quick process for your difficult child. That his hurting heart heals quickly. I don't envy you. I really hope he doesn't hit the anger with his grief to hard. As you know difficult child's and anger don't mix well, it usually brings a whole lot of trouble.</p><p></p><p>(hugs) for you and ones to pass on to your son and his hurting heart. Stay steady for the rough winds that may be coming behind....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiapet, post: 617729, member: 455"] Aw I'm sorry! I can imagine how painful this will be for him. Though I'm not sure if ms queen's ex boyfriend was a difficult child of not, I believe he had "issues" of some sort. She just recently had to break up with him too. Normally she is the one that will call far to much and be [I]in your face[/I] type. This time she met her match with him because that's how he was to her to the extreme and all this talk of "love". It overwhelmed her so much that I could not believe the intensity. She didn't want to hurt him and was afraid to break up so she thought that if she just stopped taking his calls so much and slowly backed away he'd get the hint. I advised her not to do that as I KNEW that would not be the case since every time she told him a direct statement of other things that bothered him he didn't get it. I told her be direct and break up. Didn't work. This boy cried and felt like your difficult child does very much. Then he took to being very angry and aggressive. I can only hope it's a quick process for your difficult child. That his hurting heart heals quickly. I don't envy you. I really hope he doesn't hit the anger with his grief to hard. As you know difficult child's and anger don't mix well, it usually brings a whole lot of trouble. (hugs) for you and ones to pass on to your son and his hurting heart. Stay steady for the rough winds that may be coming behind.... [/QUOTE]
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