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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 68398" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>You are doing much better than I am traci. My Corys phone calls get to me so badly. I keep telling myself that I have no power over what is going to happen to him and that I refuse to be a player in any of it. </p><p></p><p>I did talk to his public defender the other day and had an interesting little conversation with her. Of course she couldnt exactly reveal any privileged information from him I could read between the lines. I asked her if I could just tell her some things about him and that was ok by her. I told her his history and she was quite interested...I told her all about his mental health issues dating back to age 4. I told her what I really hoped would happen. She agreed with me that I had a valid wish but stated that she had to push for what HE wanted to happen and that it, of course, differed from what I wanted...lol. She said off the record that I could go talk to the DA as a victim and ask for what I wanted which is placement in a psychiatric treatment facility and then extensive probation where they make sure he follows mental health treatment. She said if he was her son it would be what she asked for after hearing about his issues. </p><p></p><p>Cory of course is trying to get me to get him out on the first with his check. He is convinced he has found a bail bondsman who will do this. Now if this guy will do it, I really cant deny him this because it IS his money. He just cant come back here to live. I just doubt the guy will do it for that amount of money so the issue may be moot. Im not adding money to it or putting up any car titles this time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 68398, member: 1514"] You are doing much better than I am traci. My Corys phone calls get to me so badly. I keep telling myself that I have no power over what is going to happen to him and that I refuse to be a player in any of it. I did talk to his public defender the other day and had an interesting little conversation with her. Of course she couldnt exactly reveal any privileged information from him I could read between the lines. I asked her if I could just tell her some things about him and that was ok by her. I told her his history and she was quite interested...I told her all about his mental health issues dating back to age 4. I told her what I really hoped would happen. She agreed with me that I had a valid wish but stated that she had to push for what HE wanted to happen and that it, of course, differed from what I wanted...lol. She said off the record that I could go talk to the DA as a victim and ask for what I wanted which is placement in a psychiatric treatment facility and then extensive probation where they make sure he follows mental health treatment. She said if he was her son it would be what she asked for after hearing about his issues. Cory of course is trying to get me to get him out on the first with his check. He is convinced he has found a bail bondsman who will do this. Now if this guy will do it, I really cant deny him this because it IS his money. He just cant come back here to live. I just doubt the guy will do it for that amount of money so the issue may be moot. Im not adding money to it or putting up any car titles this time. [/QUOTE]
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