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<blockquote data-quote="Masta" data-source="post: 73619" data-attributes="member: 308"><p>Thank you to all who posted. </p><p></p><p>my concern is if b/friend already assaulted a girl who is to say he wont do it again and the victim will be difficult child or the baby.</p><p></p><p>Teri (aka goingcrazy2): you hit the nail on the head.....</p><p></p><p>i emailed caseworker, foster mother and teacher today and here is what i wrote:</p><p></p><p>Guys,</p><p></p><p>As you know I have been in contact with all 3 of you yesterday. I haven't slept well in days worrying about the situation difficult child is in.</p><p></p><p>difficult child doesn't know that I know about what b/friend has done. I think the next time I see or speak to her I will inform her that I know about b/friend and that I would prefer if she postpone or put off the wedding. I will then let her know that I am there for her, that she doesn't have to feel stranded at b/friends house, she does have a way out if she wants it. I will inform her the State is willing to set her up in an apartment if she chooses to leave b/friend.</p><p></p><p>i will also let her know that i will attend her wedding as a guest if i am invited but i will not be contributing financially to her wedding.</p><p></p><p>I wanted to plan a get together with you 3 and just have difficult child there so we all talk to her about things but after reading the detachment website I have come to the realization that no matter what I do for difficult child there will always be drama concerning her. I cannot bail her out of trouble the rest of her life.. its too tiring and I have others to think about.</p><p></p><p>I would like your input on this, or ideas.</p><p></p><p>Thanks,</p><p></p><p>Masta</p><p></p><p>p.s caseworker if you have any CFTM (child and family team meeting) meetings notes typed up from after March onwards could you please email them so I can get a better picture of the time line of difficult child meeting b/friend. I have a funny feeling I will need to start documenting things because the inlaws seem to be like like to type to start trouble. plus who knows what's going to happen with this family and how they are going to react once I let difficult child know I know about b/friend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Masta, post: 73619, member: 308"] Thank you to all who posted. my concern is if b/friend already assaulted a girl who is to say he wont do it again and the victim will be difficult child or the baby. Teri (aka goingcrazy2): you hit the nail on the head..... i emailed caseworker, foster mother and teacher today and here is what i wrote: Guys, As you know I have been in contact with all 3 of you yesterday. I haven't slept well in days worrying about the situation difficult child is in. difficult child doesn't know that I know about what b/friend has done. I think the next time I see or speak to her I will inform her that I know about b/friend and that I would prefer if she postpone or put off the wedding. I will then let her know that I am there for her, that she doesn't have to feel stranded at b/friends house, she does have a way out if she wants it. I will inform her the State is willing to set her up in an apartment if she chooses to leave b/friend. i will also let her know that i will attend her wedding as a guest if i am invited but i will not be contributing financially to her wedding. I wanted to plan a get together with you 3 and just have difficult child there so we all talk to her about things but after reading the detachment website I have come to the realization that no matter what I do for difficult child there will always be drama concerning her. I cannot bail her out of trouble the rest of her life.. its too tiring and I have others to think about. I would like your input on this, or ideas. Thanks, Masta p.s caseworker if you have any CFTM (child and family team meeting) meetings notes typed up from after March onwards could you please email them so I can get a better picture of the time line of difficult child meeting b/friend. I have a funny feeling I will need to start documenting things because the inlaws seem to be like like to type to start trouble. plus who knows what's going to happen with this family and how they are going to react once I let difficult child know I know about b/friend. [/QUOTE]
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