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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 352584" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>So the PO violated him, but it just means that difficult child is still home, same restrictions, and has to go to court next month to see what, if anything, will happen. Being<span style="color: Indigo"> *violated*</span> just means he got another lecture. Punishment will be later, maybe, but nothing soon. </p><p></p><p>This reminds me of the court koi we went through after Wiz' last assault on me. There was NO immediate consequence for his actions, which meant that he really didn't fully connect things. There was about a month where he never wanted more than 1 outfit to be dirty because he didn't know if today was the day someone would make him go live somewhere else. For a couple of days it wasn't bad. When it hit a MONTH it was just too much. I was still adamant that I could not safely have him here, but I didn't want him to live in limbo forever. So when my parents pushed to get him to live there, well, husband and I gave in. (The court assumed that if they delayed a week or two over and over then I would give up and bring him home. The officer has told me that was the judge's instructions to him. REALLY angered me, because it was unjust to Wiz, to me, and to all of the family.)</p><p></p><p>I really pray that difficult child learns his lessons and can follow the rules until the arraignment. It seems like a very heavy burden to carry and a long time to carry it. </p><p></p><p>I also pray that this doesn't drive YOU around the bend.</p><p></p><p>Hugs to both of you</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 352584, member: 1233"] So the PO violated him, but it just means that difficult child is still home, same restrictions, and has to go to court next month to see what, if anything, will happen. Being[COLOR=Indigo] *violated*[/COLOR] just means he got another lecture. Punishment will be later, maybe, but nothing soon. This reminds me of the court koi we went through after Wiz' last assault on me. There was NO immediate consequence for his actions, which meant that he really didn't fully connect things. There was about a month where he never wanted more than 1 outfit to be dirty because he didn't know if today was the day someone would make him go live somewhere else. For a couple of days it wasn't bad. When it hit a MONTH it was just too much. I was still adamant that I could not safely have him here, but I didn't want him to live in limbo forever. So when my parents pushed to get him to live there, well, husband and I gave in. (The court assumed that if they delayed a week or two over and over then I would give up and bring him home. The officer has told me that was the judge's instructions to him. REALLY angered me, because it was unjust to Wiz, to me, and to all of the family.) I really pray that difficult child learns his lessons and can follow the rules until the arraignment. It seems like a very heavy burden to carry and a long time to carry it. I also pray that this doesn't drive YOU around the bend. Hugs to both of you [/QUOTE]
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