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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 525217"><p>Oh sweet Nancy, she wants to escape. She isn't trying to kill herself. Maybe same somehow but very different motivation. I know it hurts. Please have a busy day today and do something distracting.</p><p></p><p>In the meantime-and I mean this as gentle advice not as a criticism-please stop checking her FB page or wherever you are getting the detailed information. I know it's hard. been there done that. I know you feel the need to know. been there done that too. But when you see that stuff and you CAN'T do anything about it then it only hurts YOU. And ignorance may not be bliss but it may give you more peace. Which is why I only check difficult child's phone records. (he has me very limited on his FB page) I could check his aol email acct but when I did it last, it brought me to my knees. And h said "no more" also as gentle advice. And for months I has a post-it note with simply the word "don't" stuck to my laptop. I hope not to check it again. Even so I must admit that when he didn't return my texts last night, I did check his phone acct & was hurt that he was ignoring me yet had called his girlfriend's mother. Sigh</p><p></p><p>That essay and this board are the two lifelines I found in those first nights after difficult child stormed out. They both grabbed my heart strings and still do.</p><p></p><p>{{{hugs}}} dear friend</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 525217"] Oh sweet Nancy, she wants to escape. She isn't trying to kill herself. Maybe same somehow but very different motivation. I know it hurts. Please have a busy day today and do something distracting. In the meantime-and I mean this as gentle advice not as a criticism-please stop checking her FB page or wherever you are getting the detailed information. I know it's hard. been there done that. I know you feel the need to know. been there done that too. But when you see that stuff and you CAN'T do anything about it then it only hurts YOU. And ignorance may not be bliss but it may give you more peace. Which is why I only check difficult child's phone records. (he has me very limited on his FB page) I could check his aol email acct but when I did it last, it brought me to my knees. And h said "no more" also as gentle advice. And for months I has a post-it note with simply the word "don't" stuck to my laptop. I hope not to check it again. Even so I must admit that when he didn't return my texts last night, I did check his phone acct & was hurt that he was ignoring me yet had called his girlfriend's mother. Sigh That essay and this board are the two lifelines I found in those first nights after difficult child stormed out. They both grabbed my heart strings and still do. {{{hugs}}} dear friend [/QUOTE]
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