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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 525236" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Signorina, thank you for posting the link - I have loved your signature from the first time I visited this site.</p><p></p><p>Nancy, I am in no way making excuses for our difficult children because it is a tough world and they must learn to survive in it. For the strangest reason they take the hard life. Maybe they had a hard beginning (many of ours di,d not all) but they are the ones that have to turn their lives around. They have low self esteem and they continue to do things that lower it even more, plus having 'dirt bags' to call friends doesn't help. </p><p></p><p>I did not visit my difficult child in jail, the pain was too much, but I did accept his daily calls and I attended his rehabs. One time when an older man mentioned that his family never visited him, I told my son out of the man's hearing range, you just get so very tired of your life revolving around their promises, mistakes, and drama. </p><p></p><p>I admire you for staying busy and discussing the truth, I withdrew into myself for years when my difficult child was really bad. Not a good idea, I had to deal with it later, it doesn't go away. My husband says I always have to be doing sometime and I know it is my coping style! I am always quilting, crocheting, and knitting.</p><p></p><p>Hope you have a good day!</p><p>(((blessings for us all)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 525236, member: 13558"] Signorina, thank you for posting the link - I have loved your signature from the first time I visited this site. Nancy, I am in no way making excuses for our difficult children because it is a tough world and they must learn to survive in it. For the strangest reason they take the hard life. Maybe they had a hard beginning (many of ours di,d not all) but they are the ones that have to turn their lives around. They have low self esteem and they continue to do things that lower it even more, plus having 'dirt bags' to call friends doesn't help. I did not visit my difficult child in jail, the pain was too much, but I did accept his daily calls and I attended his rehabs. One time when an older man mentioned that his family never visited him, I told my son out of the man's hearing range, you just get so very tired of your life revolving around their promises, mistakes, and drama. I admire you for staying busy and discussing the truth, I withdrew into myself for years when my difficult child was really bad. Not a good idea, I had to deal with it later, it doesn't go away. My husband says I always have to be doing sometime and I know it is my coping style! I am always quilting, crocheting, and knitting. Hope you have a good day! (((blessings for us all))) [/QUOTE]
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