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difficult child has now sold (ebay) all the gifts he received from us last year...
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 488216"><p>Oh Susie - you didn't upset me. Not in the slightest. I think you are terrific.</p><p></p><p>You did give me food for thought...and I really thought about it and that's why I answered the way I did. I'll admit, that I was obsessed in the first two weeks or so after difficult child took off. But I've worked past that -- at times it's been REALLY HARD -- and I am in an OK place right now and have been for a few months. </p><p></p><p>I am just concerned that the balance I've found is about to get up-ended when difficult child returns on Saturday. And "IF" he is at the tipping point, I want to make sure I get my part right. Letting things unfold is my stumbling block. </p><p></p><p>You know when you feel a pimple brewing and you try to pop it way before it's ready and you end up with a big ol scabby red thing that lasts way longer than the pimple would have? That's how I treat dilemmas sometimes...I try to bring them to a head and pop em before they are ready...and end up with a bigger problem. On the bright side, it's only sometimes now - used to be all the time!</p><p></p><p>LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 488216"] Oh Susie - you didn't upset me. Not in the slightest. I think you are terrific. You did give me food for thought...and I really thought about it and that's why I answered the way I did. I'll admit, that I was obsessed in the first two weeks or so after difficult child took off. But I've worked past that -- at times it's been REALLY HARD -- and I am in an OK place right now and have been for a few months. I am just concerned that the balance I've found is about to get up-ended when difficult child returns on Saturday. And "IF" he is at the tipping point, I want to make sure I get my part right. Letting things unfold is my stumbling block. You know when you feel a pimple brewing and you try to pop it way before it's ready and you end up with a big ol scabby red thing that lasts way longer than the pimple would have? That's how I treat dilemmas sometimes...I try to bring them to a head and pop em before they are ready...and end up with a bigger problem. On the bright side, it's only sometimes now - used to be all the time! LOL [/QUOTE]
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