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difficult child hates her job!!
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 518996" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>This is totally a classic abuser move = the constant criticism and then the huge praise, which in a day or two would be followed by more criticism, probably a bit more vicious after each round of praise. She does need to stick it out but look for something else. Then, even if he is totally sweet the day she gets another job she still NEEDS to quit. I would encourage her to give very minimal notice because he is going to do all he can to savage her after she gives her notice. His kind want you to work every second of your notice because they will tear you down and try to talk to the new boss to make the new job go away. Then he will say she gave notice so she is done and her new job disappearing is not his problem. I have seen this quite a few times and experienced it myself.</p><p></p><p>I am proud that she tried to stick it out with-o telling you, and that she did not just quit when it got difficult. those are big steps, in my opinion, not baby ones.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 518996, member: 1233"] This is totally a classic abuser move = the constant criticism and then the huge praise, which in a day or two would be followed by more criticism, probably a bit more vicious after each round of praise. She does need to stick it out but look for something else. Then, even if he is totally sweet the day she gets another job she still NEEDS to quit. I would encourage her to give very minimal notice because he is going to do all he can to savage her after she gives her notice. His kind want you to work every second of your notice because they will tear you down and try to talk to the new boss to make the new job go away. Then he will say she gave notice so she is done and her new job disappearing is not his problem. I have seen this quite a few times and experienced it myself. I am proud that she tried to stick it out with-o telling you, and that she did not just quit when it got difficult. those are big steps, in my opinion, not baby ones. [/QUOTE]
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