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difficult child is now at his "winter home"
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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 389705" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>I'm not so sure his brain has even grown in yet. I'm not sure what I'm going to do with his stuff yet. His room here is empty.....I can always toss everything in there for now and shut the door. Eventually though I'll have to come up with something else. Hopefully we will get the ball rolling for another adoption after the first of the year (yeah, I know but now I know what to look for and how to read between the lines) so I'll have to get the room cleared out. We have a lot of plans for the house both inside and out. I'm hoping that once that is done (purging, new flooring through most of the house and some fresh paint) that I can use his furniture at least. We got a "new" couch and chair a couple of weeks ago from a former co-worker of husband's...the stuff is almost brand new but I think if I organize right, I can use difficult child's loveseat and chair.</p><p></p><p>AS for court and all....we don't bail out and we don't pay for lawyers. We did enough of that when difficult child was a juvenile. This is the second time THIS YEAR that he's been in jail so I don't hold much hope that he'll get off light. With that said though, he does have some things on his side....possibly. He's turned himself in on his own, he went to the police and confessed, he took them around and showed them where everything was stashed resulting in the recovery of about 90% of the stuff....some of it came up missing from the hiding spots. So....eh...we'll just have to wait and see. husband seems to think that there's a good chance he'll get 3 years with all but 1 suspended. I don't know where that is coming from but who knows.</p><p></p><p>I will be verrrry curious though to see if it comes out in open court that the police sent him home with some of the stolen items when he confessed. </p><p></p><p>Yes...they SENT. HIM. HOME.</p><p></p><p>husband had taken difficult child and the stuff that was at our house, to the police station where difficult child confessed and gave a statement. The lead officer decided that he didn't have room for the stuff at the station (BS) and told husband and difficult child to take it home and they would come get it the next day. I was on Facebook the next day having a very informative chat with the mayor who proceeded to chat with the police chief who then had a talk with the officer. husband later ran into that officer at the Y and they guy said that "that wasn't the best decision he ever made and he wouldn't be making THAT mistake again." Hmmm.....you think??? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/slap.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":slap:" title="slap :slap:" data-shortname=":slap:" /></p><p></p><p>Anyhoo.....I'll keep you updated as I find out things. Thanks for the support. I think I'll be ok as long as he serves his sentence at the county jail. If he gets sent off.....THAT will scare me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 389705, member: 2459"] I'm not so sure his brain has even grown in yet. I'm not sure what I'm going to do with his stuff yet. His room here is empty.....I can always toss everything in there for now and shut the door. Eventually though I'll have to come up with something else. Hopefully we will get the ball rolling for another adoption after the first of the year (yeah, I know but now I know what to look for and how to read between the lines) so I'll have to get the room cleared out. We have a lot of plans for the house both inside and out. I'm hoping that once that is done (purging, new flooring through most of the house and some fresh paint) that I can use his furniture at least. We got a "new" couch and chair a couple of weeks ago from a former co-worker of husband's...the stuff is almost brand new but I think if I organize right, I can use difficult child's loveseat and chair. AS for court and all....we don't bail out and we don't pay for lawyers. We did enough of that when difficult child was a juvenile. This is the second time THIS YEAR that he's been in jail so I don't hold much hope that he'll get off light. With that said though, he does have some things on his side....possibly. He's turned himself in on his own, he went to the police and confessed, he took them around and showed them where everything was stashed resulting in the recovery of about 90% of the stuff....some of it came up missing from the hiding spots. So....eh...we'll just have to wait and see. husband seems to think that there's a good chance he'll get 3 years with all but 1 suspended. I don't know where that is coming from but who knows. I will be verrrry curious though to see if it comes out in open court that the police sent him home with some of the stolen items when he confessed. Yes...they SENT. HIM. HOME. husband had taken difficult child and the stuff that was at our house, to the police station where difficult child confessed and gave a statement. The lead officer decided that he didn't have room for the stuff at the station (BS) and told husband and difficult child to take it home and they would come get it the next day. I was on Facebook the next day having a very informative chat with the mayor who proceeded to chat with the police chief who then had a talk with the officer. husband later ran into that officer at the Y and they guy said that "that wasn't the best decision he ever made and he wouldn't be making THAT mistake again." Hmmm.....you think??? :slap: Anyhoo.....I'll keep you updated as I find out things. Thanks for the support. I think I'll be ok as long as he serves his sentence at the county jail. If he gets sent off.....THAT will scare me. [/QUOTE]
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