april1974
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My M I took him to see cars2, that was a reward for lasting the last 2wks of school without any hitting etc. He's usually really fidgity and doesn't stop talking during a movie, it's really annoying to be honest, BUT....he dis amazing at the movies...he listened....didn't get up, except once to give me a hug...and only talked a few times....it was so nice to take him to the movies I also took him to the beach yesterday and I was really impressed with his behaviour, he was busy as usual, up to the play ground, back to the beach...back & forth...back and forth...but I would just stay on the beach and turn my chair whenever he left(only about 20 ft b/w playground & beach) one of his classmates was there and she kicked water in his face, because she wanted his boogie board...her dad did NOTHING!!!!I was ****** off...but....I sat back and let him resolve it....amazingly he didn't push her, hit her or yell at her....he did eventually come back over to my chair and the girl drifted closer to my area...her dad came down into the water with her...my son said "mom I want to use my board" I said "you tell xxx that she needs to share with you" her father made her give the board back...he said to me "she has problems with sharing" I said "so do my kids" and we laughed about it. My son did amazing at the beach and met new kids to play with , they all shared their toys and had fun....it was a really good day
My E stayed home with husband, he was happy building water dams etc in the sand box....I took him to the movies last night and he was really good too...listened and didn't get out of his chair! We all didn't go to the show together because friday night E was in a mood and didn't want to go...husband didn't care, he didn't want to see the movie, so I went twice.
Today me & the boys are going to a beach with my friend and her daughter...hopefully it goes well...sometimes when the boys are together it's a different dynamic...lot's of sibling fighting etc..they tend to drive me nuts....but I"m being positive.
My E stayed home with husband, he was happy building water dams etc in the sand box....I took him to the movies last night and he was really good too...listened and didn't get out of his chair! We all didn't go to the show together because friday night E was in a mood and didn't want to go...husband didn't care, he didn't want to see the movie, so I went twice.
Today me & the boys are going to a beach with my friend and her daughter...hopefully it goes well...sometimes when the boys are together it's a different dynamic...lot's of sibling fighting etc..they tend to drive me nuts....but I"m being positive.