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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 408211" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Haozi hi. yes i agree middle school is one of the hardest transitions and school pieces for a kid i read somewhere long ago. yet this started in pre k real early there were signs of it. the Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) popped up real early too like 3 years old. checking dates in fridge that sort of stuff, dirty glasses, can't let food on plates touch. than came the not wanting to go to school due to kids talking about her. that i've grappled with for years. we've had her in anxiety classes and social classes for almost 2 years at the elementary school that also had a piece in self esteem. the guidance counselor there tried multiple times to tell her the kids aren't whispering at you. yet nothing we say worked.</p><p> </p><p>Midwest mom - hi. i wish my ex would tell me he's very protective over his family tree. he i think feels that i'll blame him. which i never would outwardly. imean there are nights i get upset saying oh my god yet at the end of the day i'd never yell at him it's not his fault it's genetics. he has alot of junk there yet wont go there with me. i know his family tree to look like this....</p><p> </p><p>his dad was addicted to crack years ago unbeknownst to us originally. has extreme paranoia and anxiety is also medicated why I don't know no one will tell me. he's very odd to be around, makes you uncomfortable yet you can see the core of him is decent. he loves difficult child yet spends minimal time around her because ex h and i feel there's no reason for him to be in her life alot. he also used to beat his wife, ex h's mom years ago.</p><p> </p><p>ex h's mom - difficult child's bio grandma on paternal side - extreme paranoia and anxiety i see it and feel it when with her she makes me nervous. a kind person yet very as i said all these things. story goes she had a nervous breakdown when ex h was very small. he found her in the living room rocking back and forth naked. horrifying i know. so what's her diagnosis i dont' know.</p><p> </p><p>ex h's great parents both on mom's side ; her mom killed herself committed suicide. her husband which would be difficult child's paternal great grandpa committed suicide a year later himself.</p><p> </p><p>i dont know the rest there's depression with several of ex h's cousin's yet he wont' give me anymore info. i asK nicely and he shuts me down. </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>the only time i've found difficult child to be unrealistic is when she says and now she's almost 12 when i'm famous someday it'll all be good. i'm so excited to have my concert with- and she'll name a kid pop star. she'll talk about it as if its going to happen not a joke or smiling just factual. i'll say to her well how are you going to get there? she'll say it doesnt' matter its' just happening. will you sit in the front row sort of thing? i get creeped when she does this.</p><p> </p><p>than when we are out in public its' always shh be quiet, she has a hard time when i speak at a normal tone feels ppl are listening they'll hear me i'm embarrassing her. i have to keep my tone to a slight whisper regarding anything that difficult child dont' touch that please stop etc. any type of minimal redirection on my part or repremanding slightly if she's off the charts. in public in a store ppl are looking at us extremely self conscious yet to the point of like last night the girls who were sooo far away their pointing at me and talking about me. WHAT? they cant' even see you. I hear them. what do you hear? their whispering about me.</p><p> </p><p>it hit me last night how odd it is. why'd it hit me all these years later i dont know. yet it did. in one of her schools and only one time a new school she was in years ago fora very short period of time and we took her out in 2nd grade because she just lost it there. she thought she saw a guy in the woods with a knife at lunchtime. they had to call in cops, dogs etc. she did it again second day. principal called me. it was bad. yet we all and pysch doctor contributed it to it's a new school her anxiety was super high and no one said go further with this.</p><p> </p><p>same school she thought there was a guy in the hall wanting to hurt her. yet it was only the school cleaning guy. she hasnt done that in the new school about ppl hurting her or anything. yet she'll always be very very upset to share her personal info with any therapists or guidance counselor's because they'll tell rest of kids it's not confidential hippa doesn't exist and on and on she goes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 408211, member: 4514"] Haozi hi. yes i agree middle school is one of the hardest transitions and school pieces for a kid i read somewhere long ago. yet this started in pre k real early there were signs of it. the Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) popped up real early too like 3 years old. checking dates in fridge that sort of stuff, dirty glasses, can't let food on plates touch. than came the not wanting to go to school due to kids talking about her. that i've grappled with for years. we've had her in anxiety classes and social classes for almost 2 years at the elementary school that also had a piece in self esteem. the guidance counselor there tried multiple times to tell her the kids aren't whispering at you. yet nothing we say worked. Midwest mom - hi. i wish my ex would tell me he's very protective over his family tree. he i think feels that i'll blame him. which i never would outwardly. imean there are nights i get upset saying oh my god yet at the end of the day i'd never yell at him it's not his fault it's genetics. he has alot of junk there yet wont go there with me. i know his family tree to look like this.... his dad was addicted to crack years ago unbeknownst to us originally. has extreme paranoia and anxiety is also medicated why I don't know no one will tell me. he's very odd to be around, makes you uncomfortable yet you can see the core of him is decent. he loves difficult child yet spends minimal time around her because ex h and i feel there's no reason for him to be in her life alot. he also used to beat his wife, ex h's mom years ago. ex h's mom - difficult child's bio grandma on paternal side - extreme paranoia and anxiety i see it and feel it when with her she makes me nervous. a kind person yet very as i said all these things. story goes she had a nervous breakdown when ex h was very small. he found her in the living room rocking back and forth naked. horrifying i know. so what's her diagnosis i dont' know. ex h's great parents both on mom's side ; her mom killed herself committed suicide. her husband which would be difficult child's paternal great grandpa committed suicide a year later himself. i dont know the rest there's depression with several of ex h's cousin's yet he wont' give me anymore info. i asK nicely and he shuts me down. the only time i've found difficult child to be unrealistic is when she says and now she's almost 12 when i'm famous someday it'll all be good. i'm so excited to have my concert with- and she'll name a kid pop star. she'll talk about it as if its going to happen not a joke or smiling just factual. i'll say to her well how are you going to get there? she'll say it doesnt' matter its' just happening. will you sit in the front row sort of thing? i get creeped when she does this. than when we are out in public its' always shh be quiet, she has a hard time when i speak at a normal tone feels ppl are listening they'll hear me i'm embarrassing her. i have to keep my tone to a slight whisper regarding anything that difficult child dont' touch that please stop etc. any type of minimal redirection on my part or repremanding slightly if she's off the charts. in public in a store ppl are looking at us extremely self conscious yet to the point of like last night the girls who were sooo far away their pointing at me and talking about me. WHAT? they cant' even see you. I hear them. what do you hear? their whispering about me. it hit me last night how odd it is. why'd it hit me all these years later i dont know. yet it did. in one of her schools and only one time a new school she was in years ago fora very short period of time and we took her out in 2nd grade because she just lost it there. she thought she saw a guy in the woods with a knife at lunchtime. they had to call in cops, dogs etc. she did it again second day. principal called me. it was bad. yet we all and pysch doctor contributed it to it's a new school her anxiety was super high and no one said go further with this. same school she thought there was a guy in the hall wanting to hurt her. yet it was only the school cleaning guy. she hasnt done that in the new school about ppl hurting her or anything. yet she'll always be very very upset to share her personal info with any therapists or guidance counselor's because they'll tell rest of kids it's not confidential hippa doesn't exist and on and on she goes. [/QUOTE]
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