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difficult child smashed into a parked car, drunk
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 517352" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>(((((hugs))))) I hope you won't have problems because she is on your insurance. Make sure you get it cancelled asap. I think you were smart to read the emails because you had suspicions but with-o proof you didn't want to shut down support if that was what was truly helping her stay sober. Addicts, esp those taht are difficult children, are so good at lying and conning people and so often the parents just refuse to see it. There is never enough proof for my mother to see my brother's drinking and other problems. I swear she would say video was doctored if she saw video of him drinking or even hurting someone. She has accused me of faking voicemail from him when I elt her listen to the thngs he ranted on my voicemail. It is a huge reason I don't trust HER or him anymore. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry you are hurting so much, and in time she will spiral down. I think it will take her having to fight for sobriety WITHOUT the loving support and trust you have given her for her to really see what her addictions have cost her. Work on your own recovery and your marriage and your relationship with your easy child and on your own life, and let difficult child go to do what she will. Kudos to husband for not giving her the credit card number. I am sure she would have charged more than the cost of internet to it, esp if she just had that accident. </p><p></p><p> (((((hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 517352, member: 1233"] (((((hugs))))) I hope you won't have problems because she is on your insurance. Make sure you get it cancelled asap. I think you were smart to read the emails because you had suspicions but with-o proof you didn't want to shut down support if that was what was truly helping her stay sober. Addicts, esp those taht are difficult children, are so good at lying and conning people and so often the parents just refuse to see it. There is never enough proof for my mother to see my brother's drinking and other problems. I swear she would say video was doctored if she saw video of him drinking or even hurting someone. She has accused me of faking voicemail from him when I elt her listen to the thngs he ranted on my voicemail. It is a huge reason I don't trust HER or him anymore. I am sorry you are hurting so much, and in time she will spiral down. I think it will take her having to fight for sobriety WITHOUT the loving support and trust you have given her for her to really see what her addictions have cost her. Work on your own recovery and your marriage and your relationship with your easy child and on your own life, and let difficult child go to do what she will. Kudos to husband for not giving her the credit card number. I am sure she would have charged more than the cost of internet to it, esp if she just had that accident. (((((hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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