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difficult child stabbed yesterday, he's okay, in hospital
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 633784" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I think it's critical for us to remember everything we do for our difficult children in crisis.</p><p></p><p>As Albatross has suggested COM, get very clear with yourself about what you are doing and why, and just as clear with yourself about those things you are choosing not to do - and why.</p><p></p><p>Journal through it.</p><p></p><p>It limits self condemnation when we do this. </p><p></p><p>You must make a decision to survive it, COM.</p><p></p><p>I had to be very cold and clear eyed with myself during the worst times.</p><p></p><p>It is what it is. </p><p></p><p>No one knows the end of this story.</p><p></p><p>The only thing that has changed is that your son needs to take responsibility for following through on wound care and probably, physical therapy. </p><p></p><p>He is fortunate in having access to excellent medical care. </p><p></p><p>Remember Recovering's advice on how to know whether we are enabling. </p><p></p><p>Annie Lamont writes that there are really only three prayers. </p><p></p><p>HELP</p><p></p><p>THANKS</p><p></p><p>WOW</p><p></p><p>She has a book out with that title.</p><p></p><p>Works for me.</p><p></p><p>:0)</p><p></p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 633784, member: 17461"] I think it's critical for us to remember everything we do for our difficult children in crisis. As Albatross has suggested COM, get very clear with yourself about what you are doing and why, and just as clear with yourself about those things you are choosing not to do - and why. Journal through it. It limits self condemnation when we do this. You must make a decision to survive it, COM. I had to be very cold and clear eyed with myself during the worst times. It is what it is. No one knows the end of this story. The only thing that has changed is that your son needs to take responsibility for following through on wound care and probably, physical therapy. He is fortunate in having access to excellent medical care. Remember Recovering's advice on how to know whether we are enabling. Annie Lamont writes that there are really only three prayers. HELP THANKS WOW She has a book out with that title. Works for me. :0) Cedar [/QUOTE]
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