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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 643042" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Sweetmama, geez, I'm sorry you are in the midst of a new difficult child drama.........I know how harrowing it can be.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I agree with COM. It is not easy to gear our thoughts in this manner, but doing it and staying in the present moment, not drifting in to the future, is an excellent way for us to keep ourselves in a peaceful place. Otherwise, we are in the future, worrying and ruminating about something that hasn't happened yet. We don't know what the future holds and it can go in any direction..............try your best to stay present in the NOW.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, it is a very weird world. But their world intersects with our world.......in many different ways and yet........we can keep our distance from the worlds which cause us misery and keep the ones which work for us. Like one of the moms here whose son had kids and then abandoned them, but she is in a good relationship with the kids mom and sees the grandkids in a healthy way, her difficult child is out of the picture completely. It can turn out in a way which may end up working out okay for you, we just don't know yet. In the meantime, keep your distance, refrain from asking questions as COM suggested and carry on with your own life. Take very good care of YOU. </p><p></p><p>It'll help you a lot to have a good support system where you can express all of the feelings you are having...........this is tough stuff to deal with.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there sweet mama, we're all here for you...........hugs.........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 643042, member: 13542"] Sweetmama, geez, I'm sorry you are in the midst of a new difficult child drama.........I know how harrowing it can be. I agree with COM. It is not easy to gear our thoughts in this manner, but doing it and staying in the present moment, not drifting in to the future, is an excellent way for us to keep ourselves in a peaceful place. Otherwise, we are in the future, worrying and ruminating about something that hasn't happened yet. We don't know what the future holds and it can go in any direction..............try your best to stay present in the NOW. Yes, it is a very weird world. But their world intersects with our world.......in many different ways and yet........we can keep our distance from the worlds which cause us misery and keep the ones which work for us. Like one of the moms here whose son had kids and then abandoned them, but she is in a good relationship with the kids mom and sees the grandkids in a healthy way, her difficult child is out of the picture completely. It can turn out in a way which may end up working out okay for you, we just don't know yet. In the meantime, keep your distance, refrain from asking questions as COM suggested and carry on with your own life. Take very good care of YOU. It'll help you a lot to have a good support system where you can express all of the feelings you are having...........this is tough stuff to deal with. Hang in there sweet mama, we're all here for you...........hugs......... [/QUOTE]
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