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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 188526" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>Steeley, first of all, let me say that I'm glad that everyone involved is safe.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>As to not having your difficult child at home again ~ that is a fact of life with some of our children. As you know, we have been a "family of different addresses" for several years now. The tweedles are 14 now & it doesn't look as though wm will ever be able to live here again. It's not fair - it is what it is though.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>You will learn to handle this; a time of grieving, a time of relief & then you start living your life once again. Living with-o the constant fear of the other shoe dropping; the constant fear of abuse or physical aggression. husband & I still have a difficult time believing that we don't have to look over our shoulders for wm.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>It becomes a way of life ~ living in different settings but still being family. Your heart may break at first, but you will come out the other end a healthier parent. Hopefully, difficult child will come out the other end a healthier, functional young adult.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>The living situation becomes about young difficult child becoming as high functioning & responsible as he can. There are times a parent cannot provide this ~ for whatever reason, we cannot get through. There is no blame to this, again another fact of life.</strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>Take care & be gentle with yourself. </strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 188526, member: 393"] [COLOR=Navy][SIZE=4][FONT=Comic Sans MS][B]Steeley, first of all, let me say that I'm glad that everyone involved is safe. As to not having your difficult child at home again ~ that is a fact of life with some of our children. As you know, we have been a "family of different addresses" for several years now. The tweedles are 14 now & it doesn't look as though wm will ever be able to live here again. It's not fair - it is what it is though. You will learn to handle this; a time of grieving, a time of relief & then you start living your life once again. Living with-o the constant fear of the other shoe dropping; the constant fear of abuse or physical aggression. husband & I still have a difficult time believing that we don't have to look over our shoulders for wm. It becomes a way of life ~ living in different settings but still being family. Your heart may break at first, but you will come out the other end a healthier parent. Hopefully, difficult child will come out the other end a healthier, functional young adult. The living situation becomes about young difficult child becoming as high functioning & responsible as he can. There are times a parent cannot provide this ~ for whatever reason, we cannot get through. There is no blame to this, again another fact of life. Take care & be gentle with yourself. [/B][/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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