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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 492968" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>While I agree wth the nonviolence as teh best way to raise a child, it made NO difference to Wiz. He saw the nonviolence as me being submissive to him. There is NO WAY that I would be alive today if I hadn't given some show of force at specific times. Every therapist/psychiatrist/doctor/counselor first said go nonviolent all the time then said "OH MY GOD HE WILL KILL YOU IF YOU DON"T SHOW YOU ARE NOT AFRAID AND ARE STRONGER". Every. Single. One. A couple he actually wrestled to the floor during therapy sessions. They eventually all realized that some people just do not recognize nonviolence and will just hurt you unless you show you are stronger.</p><p></p><p>sadly, I think that is what Wiped Out is dealing with. She can be as nonviolent as she wants, but unless she forces him to STOP each and every time he does something that is leaning toward violence then she is goign to end up badly hurt. It is what it is. I wish it could be what we want it to be, but with some people it just isn't. </p><p></p><p>not only would I be dead if I didn't show Wiz I would NEVER bow down to him, my daughter would also be dead today. None of us have any doubts about this, not even Wiz. If I had allowed that, I wouldn't deserve to be a parent to any of them and Wiz would have killed himself once he calmed down and saw what he had done. You may not agree, but you were not here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 492968, member: 1233"] While I agree wth the nonviolence as teh best way to raise a child, it made NO difference to Wiz. He saw the nonviolence as me being submissive to him. There is NO WAY that I would be alive today if I hadn't given some show of force at specific times. Every therapist/psychiatrist/doctor/counselor first said go nonviolent all the time then said "OH MY GOD HE WILL KILL YOU IF YOU DON"T SHOW YOU ARE NOT AFRAID AND ARE STRONGER". Every. Single. One. A couple he actually wrestled to the floor during therapy sessions. They eventually all realized that some people just do not recognize nonviolence and will just hurt you unless you show you are stronger. sadly, I think that is what Wiped Out is dealing with. She can be as nonviolent as she wants, but unless she forces him to STOP each and every time he does something that is leaning toward violence then she is goign to end up badly hurt. It is what it is. I wish it could be what we want it to be, but with some people it just isn't. not only would I be dead if I didn't show Wiz I would NEVER bow down to him, my daughter would also be dead today. None of us have any doubts about this, not even Wiz. If I had allowed that, I wouldn't deserve to be a parent to any of them and Wiz would have killed himself once he calmed down and saw what he had done. You may not agree, but you were not here. [/QUOTE]
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