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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 354229" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I went out to a 24-hour pharmacy and bought a drug test to give difficult child one myself. I tried to wake him up about 5:30-6:00 to take it but I got an earful and a refusal to get out of bed. So I got some sleep and just got up- he's still in bed and I'm guessing he should be up soon and we'll see if he takes it then. difficult child had been taking cigs, unrolling them to get the tobacco out and smoking the tobacco like pot. They might have been smoking pot but I'm not so sure given how the last drug test came back- I wouldn't be shocked either way but it will sure dig difficult child in even deeper if he was.. I think I'll have my answer, even if no hard evidence, if difficult child takes this test or refuses. I just found evidence that the boy called our house after midnight last night- twice- apparently difficult child didn't answer the first time. If difficult child was pushing that boy into being a difficult child against his will, why was he calling here?</p><p></p><p>As far as the other boy, he has done stupid stuff before even before knowing difficult child and the mother knows it- she's the one that told me- she said he'd been caught by her but not police prior to knowing difficult child. They met and became best friends in 6th grade but were kept apart after difficult child was put on probation until the begininng of 7th grade. At the end of 7th grade (2 years ago), they were arrested together for going into a shed of one of the boy's neighbor's. difficult child was held in detention for a time and held on probation, which was about to end. The other boy got put on probation for 1 year and the sentence would have been dropped if he had never gotten into trouble again. While difficult child was in detention, the boy painted a street sign and his probation was extended 6 more months. They had both taken their computers apart around the tiome of the shed incident, too. That happened while difficult child was spending the night at the boy's house. difficult child's computer didn't work after he put it back together so the sd arrested him and I had to pay for the computer. The boy's computer did work, however, the sd could tell he'd tampered with it and called hi mom. The mom blamed difficult child for that, too, and called me like she hated me. Never mind that it happened in her own house, they each admittedly tampered their own computers and my son's end result was much worse than her son's, and I had to pay for a computer. </p><p></p><p>Last night, difficult child and the boy had already planned this earlier in the evening apparently. The boy's mom said he'd crawled out of his window and she caught them near their house together when she went looking for her son. I'd like to know how she justifies in her mind that my son is guilty for being out past curfew but her's is not. She gave her son a drug test about 10 days ago and it came back hot. Shhe is probably assuming that difficult child is supplying her son or someething. But I had called officials here about the boy that I think is instiggating trouble, linking up 9th graders and younger with suppliers, has been a real disrespectful jerk and troublemaker to many for several years, and has parents that apprently don't care that he's this way, sneaks out a lot with his younger brother with him, and does drugs, and I was told by police that they can't do anything unless they catch hiim or have hard evidence but if they catch difficult child with him and doing the same thing, difficult child would get arrested, too. I was told by CPS that they can't do anything because it isn't the parent's fault if the kid is doing these things (funny no one felt that it wasn't my responsibility when difficult child messes up). Also, cps told me if my son was roaming the street during the night with that boy than that was my son's decision, no matter if the other boy tried to talk him into it. My guess is that b//c difficult child has the record he does, he will always bhe seen as "the" guilty one, not "one of the" guilty ones. And the others will probably get off with a warning to stay away from difficult child. The mom will figure it out- difficult child won't be here and unless her son becomes a saint, she'll probably catch him doing something else at some point someday and difficult child won't even be around.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 354229, member: 3699"] I went out to a 24-hour pharmacy and bought a drug test to give difficult child one myself. I tried to wake him up about 5:30-6:00 to take it but I got an earful and a refusal to get out of bed. So I got some sleep and just got up- he's still in bed and I'm guessing he should be up soon and we'll see if he takes it then. difficult child had been taking cigs, unrolling them to get the tobacco out and smoking the tobacco like pot. They might have been smoking pot but I'm not so sure given how the last drug test came back- I wouldn't be shocked either way but it will sure dig difficult child in even deeper if he was.. I think I'll have my answer, even if no hard evidence, if difficult child takes this test or refuses. I just found evidence that the boy called our house after midnight last night- twice- apparently difficult child didn't answer the first time. If difficult child was pushing that boy into being a difficult child against his will, why was he calling here? As far as the other boy, he has done stupid stuff before even before knowing difficult child and the mother knows it- she's the one that told me- she said he'd been caught by her but not police prior to knowing difficult child. They met and became best friends in 6th grade but were kept apart after difficult child was put on probation until the begininng of 7th grade. At the end of 7th grade (2 years ago), they were arrested together for going into a shed of one of the boy's neighbor's. difficult child was held in detention for a time and held on probation, which was about to end. The other boy got put on probation for 1 year and the sentence would have been dropped if he had never gotten into trouble again. While difficult child was in detention, the boy painted a street sign and his probation was extended 6 more months. They had both taken their computers apart around the tiome of the shed incident, too. That happened while difficult child was spending the night at the boy's house. difficult child's computer didn't work after he put it back together so the sd arrested him and I had to pay for the computer. The boy's computer did work, however, the sd could tell he'd tampered with it and called hi mom. The mom blamed difficult child for that, too, and called me like she hated me. Never mind that it happened in her own house, they each admittedly tampered their own computers and my son's end result was much worse than her son's, and I had to pay for a computer. Last night, difficult child and the boy had already planned this earlier in the evening apparently. The boy's mom said he'd crawled out of his window and she caught them near their house together when she went looking for her son. I'd like to know how she justifies in her mind that my son is guilty for being out past curfew but her's is not. She gave her son a drug test about 10 days ago and it came back hot. Shhe is probably assuming that difficult child is supplying her son or someething. But I had called officials here about the boy that I think is instiggating trouble, linking up 9th graders and younger with suppliers, has been a real disrespectful jerk and troublemaker to many for several years, and has parents that apprently don't care that he's this way, sneaks out a lot with his younger brother with him, and does drugs, and I was told by police that they can't do anything unless they catch hiim or have hard evidence but if they catch difficult child with him and doing the same thing, difficult child would get arrested, too. I was told by CPS that they can't do anything because it isn't the parent's fault if the kid is doing these things (funny no one felt that it wasn't my responsibility when difficult child messes up). Also, cps told me if my son was roaming the street during the night with that boy than that was my son's decision, no matter if the other boy tried to talk him into it. My guess is that b//c difficult child has the record he does, he will always bhe seen as "the" guilty one, not "one of the" guilty ones. And the others will probably get off with a warning to stay away from difficult child. The mom will figure it out- difficult child won't be here and unless her son becomes a saint, she'll probably catch him doing something else at some point someday and difficult child won't even be around. [/QUOTE]
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