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<blockquote data-quote="Rotsne" data-source="post: 223219" data-attributes="member: 6326"><p>IF they discharged him due to your calls, they properly had something to hide. <a href="http://deseretnews.com/article/content/mobile/1,5620,705264131,00.htm" target="_blank">Just a couple of weeks ago a rehab settled for $450,000</a>. Back when the case first appeared the <a href="http://thewhitmoreacademy.blogspot.com/2007/03/whitmore-academy-my-experiences.html" target="_blank">owners and the referral agency attacked the mother</a> of one of the teens for constant interruption and asking questions.</p><p> </p><p>I believe that any program; inpatient or outpatient should operate with a open door policy when it comes to the familie of the person in the program. I don't believe in any period without contact to the family "to adjust". I don't believe that communication face-to-face with parents is something to be earned as part of the program. Of course if they are placed against their will, it could be expected that they will try to get the parents to pull them. There is four strategies for that: Denial, guilt trips, anger or Negotiation. As for all four there is only one answer. Go there, demand one-to-one talk uninterrupted, disapprove the complaint with valid arguments. <a href="http://www.secretprisonsforteens.dk/Parents/child_placed.htm#3" target="_blank">I found a good site for that</a>.</p><p> </p><p>However I don't think that is the reason. I think that the fact that he broke the rules in this program made them think that he was not ready to quit his addiction. Generally I don't believe can fix a problem they do not acknowledge. So in order not to waste the staff's time and money for those you pays for the treatment, they had to let him go.</p><p> </p><p>Let him home, but do not take responsibility for his choices. He must take the consequences for his choices. That means no money, access to car or anything else that could enable him to continue his addiction. If he choose to drop out and get a job in order to maintain alcohol consumption, which I now understand is a problem by this agegroup in your country, then it must be so. Just don't help him in any way. I pray that he at sometime finds the strength to make other choices and give you my full support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rotsne, post: 223219, member: 6326"] IF they discharged him due to your calls, they properly had something to hide. [URL="http://deseretnews.com/article/content/mobile/1,5620,705264131,00.htm"]Just a couple of weeks ago a rehab settled for $450,000[/URL]. Back when the case first appeared the [URL="http://thewhitmoreacademy.blogspot.com/2007/03/whitmore-academy-my-experiences.html"]owners and the referral agency attacked the mother[/URL] of one of the teens for constant interruption and asking questions. I believe that any program; inpatient or outpatient should operate with a open door policy when it comes to the familie of the person in the program. I don't believe in any period without contact to the family "to adjust". I don't believe that communication face-to-face with parents is something to be earned as part of the program. Of course if they are placed against their will, it could be expected that they will try to get the parents to pull them. There is four strategies for that: Denial, guilt trips, anger or Negotiation. As for all four there is only one answer. Go there, demand one-to-one talk uninterrupted, disapprove the complaint with valid arguments. [URL="http://www.secretprisonsforteens.dk/Parents/child_placed.htm#3"]I found a good site for that[/URL]. However I don't think that is the reason. I think that the fact that he broke the rules in this program made them think that he was not ready to quit his addiction. Generally I don't believe can fix a problem they do not acknowledge. So in order not to waste the staff's time and money for those you pays for the treatment, they had to let him go. Let him home, but do not take responsibility for his choices. He must take the consequences for his choices. That means no money, access to car or anything else that could enable him to continue his addiction. If he choose to drop out and get a job in order to maintain alcohol consumption, which I now understand is a problem by this agegroup in your country, then it must be so. Just don't help him in any way. I pray that he at sometime finds the strength to make other choices and give you my full support. [/QUOTE]
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