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Do you throw them out? What are YOUR feelings ? Explain your detachment.
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<blockquote data-quote="elizabrary" data-source="post: 409926" data-attributes="member: 11235"><p>Twice I let Kat move back in- the first time she and BD were evicted and she was 8 months pregnant. The second time she left BD. I will never let her move back in with me, even with the baby. She demonstrated both times that she is irresponsible and unable to live by my rules and respect me, so I am done. She is one of those people who will take and take and take and never appreciate the help she is given or learn from past mistakes. Perhaps she will grow out of this one day, but I'm not holding my breath. Do I worry? Every single day I am worried about her and the baby. However, with her gone my head is clear and I am much healthier, happier and mentally sound, even though I have that constant nagging worry hanging over me. In my experience she only learns when she is smashed over the head with her problems and figures her own way out of them. For years I tried to cushion the blows, but it did not help her improve her situation. I hate it, but I truly believe this is best for both of us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="elizabrary, post: 409926, member: 11235"] Twice I let Kat move back in- the first time she and BD were evicted and she was 8 months pregnant. The second time she left BD. I will never let her move back in with me, even with the baby. She demonstrated both times that she is irresponsible and unable to live by my rules and respect me, so I am done. She is one of those people who will take and take and take and never appreciate the help she is given or learn from past mistakes. Perhaps she will grow out of this one day, but I'm not holding my breath. Do I worry? Every single day I am worried about her and the baby. However, with her gone my head is clear and I am much healthier, happier and mentally sound, even though I have that constant nagging worry hanging over me. In my experience she only learns when she is smashed over the head with her problems and figures her own way out of them. For years I tried to cushion the blows, but it did not help her improve her situation. I hate it, but I truly believe this is best for both of us. [/QUOTE]
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