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Do you throw them out? What are YOUR feelings ? Explain your detachment.
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 409959" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Things being what they are...</p><p> </p><p>husband is a bit waffly when it comes to confrontation. He does <em>not</em> like chaos, so he's let Onyxx run roughshod over him. Recently, he's picked up the ball (mostly) and she does.not.like.it. Not at all. However...</p><p> </p><p>Since we are going through with the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) - assuming nothing ELSE happens - I can hope that this will be what she needs to help. because if it's not? The minute she's legally old enough? Buh-bye. We will help her - <em>if</em> she helps herself. But that's a few years into the future.</p><p> </p><p>Jett, on the other hand, has issues that are far different from Onyxx's. And there is a "favoritism" thing - we will do everything we can to get him to the point where he is able to live on his own, but I'm not thinking that will be at age 18. Onyxx will see it as favoritism, but frankly, she physically hurt people for YEARS before I put my foot down, before I came on the scene. Jett hasn't. She has done (may be doing) drugs - not Jett. And on and on. Different people, different issues, different treatment. I'm sorry, but fair does not mean equal.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 409959, member: 6705"] Things being what they are... husband is a bit waffly when it comes to confrontation. He does [I]not[/I] like chaos, so he's let Onyxx run roughshod over him. Recently, he's picked up the ball (mostly) and she does.not.like.it. Not at all. However... Since we are going through with the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) - assuming nothing ELSE happens - I can hope that this will be what she needs to help. because if it's not? The minute she's legally old enough? Buh-bye. We will help her - [I]if[/I] she helps herself. But that's a few years into the future. Jett, on the other hand, has issues that are far different from Onyxx's. And there is a "favoritism" thing - we will do everything we can to get him to the point where he is able to live on his own, but I'm not thinking that will be at age 18. Onyxx will see it as favoritism, but frankly, she physically hurt people for YEARS before I put my foot down, before I came on the scene. Jett hasn't. She has done (may be doing) drugs - not Jett. And on and on. Different people, different issues, different treatment. I'm sorry, but fair does not mean equal. [/QUOTE]
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