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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 274274" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>He's lying to me, thinks he makes the rules and doesn't have to listen to me, he's never home, talks to me like I'm dirt, has gone from failing 3 classes to failing all of them and doesn't seem to care that he's not going to graduate. He's become very controlling and angry and taking it out on all of us. But, falls all over himself to do things for his friends - the ones that take advantage of him. Yet, has no trouble telling K that he thinks his (K's) girlfriend is a B and that he needs to get rid of her. K's girlfriend is pregnant.</p><p></p><p>One of the things that bothered him about Ashlee is that she doesn't want to go to drinking parties because it makes her uncomfortable. I'm thinking he's out drinking because he certainly doesn't want to be home. Ashlee has mild CP and can't do much with her left hand, but he was making her do things with it. Cause I guess a dozen years of Occupational Therapist (OT) doesn't know as much as he does. Then making her feel bad when she couldn't do it.</p><p></p><p>And that's just to start. </p><p></p><p>He told me the other day that I was being a B. He said, that yeah, he said I was being a B, but that's not the same thing as saying I *am* a B. He hasn't apologized. </p><p></p><p>He was shoving hard on the door this morning and then yelling because I went to bed before difficult child and she bolted the door. She's afraid when I go to bed before her. He came in yelling that he has to have a way to get in in the morning. I tried to call him last night to let him know, but he answered the phone, "What?" in a nasty tone and I said nevermind and hung up. He only came home to take a shower before going to work. </p><p></p><p>I could go on and on. </p><p></p><p>My home is my haven. My home growing up was never safe. My home when I was married was never safe. I am not having this in my home. I can't. I won't.</p><p></p><p>I've walked around everyday for the last couple of months feeling sick over this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 274274, member: 7083"] He's lying to me, thinks he makes the rules and doesn't have to listen to me, he's never home, talks to me like I'm dirt, has gone from failing 3 classes to failing all of them and doesn't seem to care that he's not going to graduate. He's become very controlling and angry and taking it out on all of us. But, falls all over himself to do things for his friends - the ones that take advantage of him. Yet, has no trouble telling K that he thinks his (K's) girlfriend is a B and that he needs to get rid of her. K's girlfriend is pregnant. One of the things that bothered him about Ashlee is that she doesn't want to go to drinking parties because it makes her uncomfortable. I'm thinking he's out drinking because he certainly doesn't want to be home. Ashlee has mild CP and can't do much with her left hand, but he was making her do things with it. Cause I guess a dozen years of Occupational Therapist (OT) doesn't know as much as he does. Then making her feel bad when she couldn't do it. And that's just to start. He told me the other day that I was being a B. He said, that yeah, he said I was being a B, but that's not the same thing as saying I *am* a B. He hasn't apologized. He was shoving hard on the door this morning and then yelling because I went to bed before difficult child and she bolted the door. She's afraid when I go to bed before her. He came in yelling that he has to have a way to get in in the morning. I tried to call him last night to let him know, but he answered the phone, "What?" in a nasty tone and I said nevermind and hung up. He only came home to take a shower before going to work. I could go on and on. My home is my haven. My home growing up was never safe. My home when I was married was never safe. I am not having this in my home. I can't. I won't. I've walked around everyday for the last couple of months feeling sick over this. [/QUOTE]
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