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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 517871" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I was married with my own child before my mother ever said ANYTHING that MIGHT be construed as comments on sex other than sex ed, birth control types of things. And those stressed values heavily. Not "here are your values, we don't believe in blah blah" that kids don't listen to, but "figure out what your values are BEFORE you start getting involved sexually and make SURE that you are on the same page with him" kind of things. Of course my mom knew I was a levelheaded kid and that influenced these talks. </p><p></p><p>Her comment was NOT how to be more interesting, but a rather abstract comment that was hysterical but won't be repeated - to anyone. </p><p></p><p>There is NO WAY that one of my kds would ask this. partly because I have taught them that this is a private matter and I will answer questions but they have to lsiten to the WHOLE answer. Partly because they are a bit afraid of what I might say if they did ask. Wiz and Jess remember what I did wehn Wiz explored porn - which was to talk about how various people he knows have sex. Marg gave me the idea. Imagine what the couple down the road are doing? Or your grandparents? What about htat really old greeter at Walmart and his wife? Years later he told me that I totally ruined his fantasies for several years because he would hear me asking that in his head. I was so PLEASED!!! I didn't know he was listening back then, lol!! He was NOT thrilled that I was pleased. And not surprised iether, lol.</p><p></p><p>You have set great boundaries in place. PLEASE do not drve up there to fix her problem. She can WALK to the pharmacy. if she wanted your help than she could live at home and be a decent person to the entire family. Let her pay for the rx if there is a fee. She is old enough to live on her own, she can pay her bills too. This ncludes medications for this infection, which could be from her lifestyle. </p><p></p><p>Kudos on not driving up there to rescue her!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 517871, member: 1233"] I was married with my own child before my mother ever said ANYTHING that MIGHT be construed as comments on sex other than sex ed, birth control types of things. And those stressed values heavily. Not "here are your values, we don't believe in blah blah" that kids don't listen to, but "figure out what your values are BEFORE you start getting involved sexually and make SURE that you are on the same page with him" kind of things. Of course my mom knew I was a levelheaded kid and that influenced these talks. Her comment was NOT how to be more interesting, but a rather abstract comment that was hysterical but won't be repeated - to anyone. There is NO WAY that one of my kds would ask this. partly because I have taught them that this is a private matter and I will answer questions but they have to lsiten to the WHOLE answer. Partly because they are a bit afraid of what I might say if they did ask. Wiz and Jess remember what I did wehn Wiz explored porn - which was to talk about how various people he knows have sex. Marg gave me the idea. Imagine what the couple down the road are doing? Or your grandparents? What about htat really old greeter at Walmart and his wife? Years later he told me that I totally ruined his fantasies for several years because he would hear me asking that in his head. I was so PLEASED!!! I didn't know he was listening back then, lol!! He was NOT thrilled that I was pleased. And not surprised iether, lol. You have set great boundaries in place. PLEASE do not drve up there to fix her problem. She can WALK to the pharmacy. if she wanted your help than she could live at home and be a decent person to the entire family. Let her pay for the rx if there is a fee. She is old enough to live on her own, she can pay her bills too. This ncludes medications for this infection, which could be from her lifestyle. Kudos on not driving up there to rescue her!!! [/QUOTE]
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