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<blockquote data-quote="WhiteDeer5" data-source="post: 502945" data-attributes="member: 13710"><p>I looked up a bit on insecure attachment. Im not sure if he have it, but the closest thing that fit him is, dismissive-avoidant but there are few major points that set him apart from the description. Clyde normally dont show emotion, is distant, very independent, and a loner, but from time to time he can be really sensitive of other needs. He also have so much childhood memory and is more than willing to talk about his experience and what he have done or seen and where he have been.</p><p>I also put in some research on bipolar and most of it doesnt fit Clyde at all but what I find is hypomania fit him almost perfect. Only thing is, he is an introvert person and isnt emotionally sensitive. </p><p>I have never really seen Clyde depressed or being down for an extension time beside first two weeks he lives here, but I think thats because he was really upset about having to leave the life he like for his own better.</p><p> </p><p>At night Clyde usually go to play water polo, work out, working, or looking for new clients.</p><p> </p><p>Clyde will talk about anything, but if I try to explain him that theres rules or that Im his mother or anything like that, he just start to say what I want to hear instead of talking.</p><p> </p><p>I dont even know how to discipline him anymore. He never watches tv, always come up with another cell phones somehow, and he doesnt always use work out equipment. We took his laptop away once and that was only time it seems to get to him, but after a few days, he doesnt care and didnt even ask for it back. At home, he is a reading machine and often is reading 2 or 3 books on different subjects at once, he also like to fiddle with machines, drawing, and other thing. We have tried to offer to help him get a driving license, he just doesnt show much interest after we postpone the offer because he got in trouble. </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Clyde was living with his father in some country by Sudan when he got caught with the gun. So I wasnt there, but from what his father told me, he went through Clydes room and found some firearms parts and one almost completed handgun along with tools, and another fake passport.</p><p>Im guess he was really upset about everything because he was sent here just a week after he got caught and he was still really down about having to move. </p><p>As for drug, I am still on fence about it. I have never seen anything that could hint drug use and he passed drug test twice. But his behave is rather odd. Im starting to getting really tempted to search his room, not just for drugs but also for any remain cell phones, business cards, and other things in effort to stop him from being able to get out and do what he have been doing so easily.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhiteDeer5, post: 502945, member: 13710"] I looked up a bit on insecure attachment. Im not sure if he have it, but the closest thing that fit him is, dismissive-avoidant but there are few major points that set him apart from the description. Clyde normally dont show emotion, is distant, very independent, and a loner, but from time to time he can be really sensitive of other needs. He also have so much childhood memory and is more than willing to talk about his experience and what he have done or seen and where he have been. I also put in some research on bipolar and most of it doesnt fit Clyde at all but what I find is hypomania fit him almost perfect. Only thing is, he is an introvert person and isnt emotionally sensitive. I have never really seen Clyde depressed or being down for an extension time beside first two weeks he lives here, but I think thats because he was really upset about having to leave the life he like for his own better. At night Clyde usually go to play water polo, work out, working, or looking for new clients. Clyde will talk about anything, but if I try to explain him that theres rules or that Im his mother or anything like that, he just start to say what I want to hear instead of talking. I dont even know how to discipline him anymore. He never watches tv, always come up with another cell phones somehow, and he doesnt always use work out equipment. We took his laptop away once and that was only time it seems to get to him, but after a few days, he doesnt care and didnt even ask for it back. At home, he is a reading machine and often is reading 2 or 3 books on different subjects at once, he also like to fiddle with machines, drawing, and other thing. We have tried to offer to help him get a driving license, he just doesnt show much interest after we postpone the offer because he got in trouble. Clyde was living with his father in some country by Sudan when he got caught with the gun. So I wasnt there, but from what his father told me, he went through Clydes room and found some firearms parts and one almost completed handgun along with tools, and another fake passport. Im guess he was really upset about everything because he was sent here just a week after he got caught and he was still really down about having to move. As for drug, I am still on fence about it. I have never seen anything that could hint drug use and he passed drug test twice. But his behave is rather odd. Im starting to getting really tempted to search his room, not just for drugs but also for any remain cell phones, business cards, and other things in effort to stop him from being able to get out and do what he have been doing so easily. [/QUOTE]
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