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<blockquote data-quote="WhiteDeer5" data-source="post: 503877" data-attributes="member: 13710"><p>This weekend, I finally bit the bullet and ask him more about his travel and stuff. I never really like to ask about it because I just dont want to encourage him or thinking it is something good.</p><p>Clyde still refuses to talk about selling firearms thing. But when asked about the gun, I learned that he was more worried about getting caught in middle of others war or conflicts than being targeted by anyone. I dont know what to make out of this, but when I asked about terrorist or someone trying to kidnapping him for money, Clyde just brushes it off and says he was never worried about those as there was other things he should be more worried about.</p><p>I tried to ask him what if something happen to him or someone want to hurt him, he says hes always in a hurry to get to place he want to go so he can make it back home before his father did. So he never really stays in one place for long, so no one really had time to think about or plan anything. He says people may look at him since hes white and sometime begs, but they never really bother him. He says it is mostly the military or law enforce that he have to deal with and they never gave him any problem.</p><p> </p><p>Im still trying to decide on residential treatment center. I just really dont like the idea of forcing him into this and ruin our relationship then quite possibly having him somehow escape and never come back or talk with the family again. I may look into counseling, but I really dont think Clyde will talk.</p><p></p><p>I also tried to talk to him about his future. It was worse than I thought. He stick to what he says he want to do firmly and dont care what anybody tell him. I tried to explain him that everybody want something, but they all still make the end meet and have to work to do that and thats the reality of it. He says he have lived the life he want already so he know he can do it again and plan on doing it again. </p><p>After a long talk, trying to get him to decide on just one career that he may be interested in, he ended up got up and told me to go read Black Hawk Down and that a special operator name John Mace (sp?) have the jobs hes interested in. After that he just stops talk and start to say what I want to hear ugh!</p><p>Talk about frustrating!</p><p> </p><p>Im going to try search his room soon and see if he have anything illegal and go from there. I have even considers trying to get someone to follow him and see what hes up to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhiteDeer5, post: 503877, member: 13710"] This weekend, I finally bit the bullet and ask him more about his travel and stuff. I never really like to ask about it because I just dont want to encourage him or thinking it is something good. Clyde still refuses to talk about selling firearms thing. But when asked about the gun, I learned that he was more worried about getting caught in middle of others war or conflicts than being targeted by anyone. I dont know what to make out of this, but when I asked about terrorist or someone trying to kidnapping him for money, Clyde just brushes it off and says he was never worried about those as there was other things he should be more worried about. I tried to ask him what if something happen to him or someone want to hurt him, he says hes always in a hurry to get to place he want to go so he can make it back home before his father did. So he never really stays in one place for long, so no one really had time to think about or plan anything. He says people may look at him since hes white and sometime begs, but they never really bother him. He says it is mostly the military or law enforce that he have to deal with and they never gave him any problem. Im still trying to decide on residential treatment center. I just really dont like the idea of forcing him into this and ruin our relationship then quite possibly having him somehow escape and never come back or talk with the family again. I may look into counseling, but I really dont think Clyde will talk. I also tried to talk to him about his future. It was worse than I thought. He stick to what he says he want to do firmly and dont care what anybody tell him. I tried to explain him that everybody want something, but they all still make the end meet and have to work to do that and thats the reality of it. He says he have lived the life he want already so he know he can do it again and plan on doing it again. After a long talk, trying to get him to decide on just one career that he may be interested in, he ended up got up and told me to go read Black Hawk Down and that a special operator name John Mace (sp?) have the jobs hes interested in. After that he just stops talk and start to say what I want to hear ugh! Talk about frustrating! Im going to try search his room soon and see if he have anything illegal and go from there. I have even considers trying to get someone to follow him and see what hes up to. [/QUOTE]
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