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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 302786" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>I think husband needs mental health care for sure. He needs to detox from this situation and his birth family crappe. </p><p> </p><p>I don't really buy all my sister's theory, but think she might be on the right track with thinking that husband would secretly be relieved if difficult child were taken--provided no one criticized him for it, a very unlikely scenario. However, it explains why he'd consider sending difficult child to him mom's. He'd be rid of difficult child and not criticized by anyone for it (until it all fell apart and got ugly at mom's and they blamed him).</p><p> </p><p>I think he's really convinced himself that difficult child is a poor little troubled boy who is being treated unfairly by the world who doesn't understand how much difficult child wants to be normal. That if difficult child just got 'a break' and some extra tlc, he'd be fine. </p><p> </p><p>And there's nothing that will prevent me from going to court. I just hope something is resolved on Thursday, it doesn't get continued, or the sentencing, if he's found guilty, get delayed, or there needs to be more tests or whatever.</p><p> </p><p>If the judge orders some kind of family counselling, I don't know if I will participate. Everyone keeps telling me this isn't my kid and I have no rights. I've done nothing wrong, why should I have to be bothered and my kids be bothered with mst? Especially if I file for divorce. </p><p> </p><p>If the judge orders family intervention counselling, I will file for divorce and refuse. At that point just about all the judge can do is order difficult child not to live in the same house with me, which means husband has to move out. </p><p> </p><p>This is very hard. All these, what ifs, what ifs... And what do I do if husband does tell the court he thinks it's me or my kids who are setting difficult child up? Do I send a note to the prosecutor? Or will I be asked as a witness? Or will it not matter at all (except to me and husband who will be seeing divorce papers within 48 business hours). </p><p> </p><p>What if, what if, what if....</p><p> </p><p>I can't live like this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 302786, member: 5169"] I think husband needs mental health care for sure. He needs to detox from this situation and his birth family crappe. I don't really buy all my sister's theory, but think she might be on the right track with thinking that husband would secretly be relieved if difficult child were taken--provided no one criticized him for it, a very unlikely scenario. However, it explains why he'd consider sending difficult child to him mom's. He'd be rid of difficult child and not criticized by anyone for it (until it all fell apart and got ugly at mom's and they blamed him). I think he's really convinced himself that difficult child is a poor little troubled boy who is being treated unfairly by the world who doesn't understand how much difficult child wants to be normal. That if difficult child just got 'a break' and some extra tlc, he'd be fine. And there's nothing that will prevent me from going to court. I just hope something is resolved on Thursday, it doesn't get continued, or the sentencing, if he's found guilty, get delayed, or there needs to be more tests or whatever. If the judge orders some kind of family counselling, I don't know if I will participate. Everyone keeps telling me this isn't my kid and I have no rights. I've done nothing wrong, why should I have to be bothered and my kids be bothered with mst? Especially if I file for divorce. If the judge orders family intervention counselling, I will file for divorce and refuse. At that point just about all the judge can do is order difficult child not to live in the same house with me, which means husband has to move out. This is very hard. All these, what ifs, what ifs... And what do I do if husband does tell the court he thinks it's me or my kids who are setting difficult child up? Do I send a note to the prosecutor? Or will I be asked as a witness? Or will it not matter at all (except to me and husband who will be seeing divorce papers within 48 business hours). What if, what if, what if.... I can't live like this. [/QUOTE]
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