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Doubt and Guilt...Need a reality check
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 654265" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Very well spoken.</p><p></p><p>Thank you.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>"The hard part is how to remain confident about my decisions and actions."</p><p></p><p>Could you set an intention of maintaining confidence? Something that simple can help us stay upright. To worry and fear for and protect our kids is how we parent when they are little. If we want them to mature, <em>we have to change our responses.</em></p><p></p><p>We need to learn to parent differently.</p><p></p><p>I think your description of your patterns of interaction with your child was very insightful. If we can see, and then, name the behaviors we would like to change in ourselves, we are nearly there. You are dealing with the emotional realities of what is happening with your child. That is heavy stuff, <em>but you know already how you can come through this in a better emotional place.</em></p><p></p><p>Just like it is with our kids, no one can tell us how to do any of this, but you do know already the right next step to take.</p><p></p><p>Good job.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/9-07bravo.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bravo:" title="bravo :bravo:" data-shortname=":bravo:" /></p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 654265, member: 17461"] Very well spoken. Thank you. "The hard part is how to remain confident about my decisions and actions." Could you set an intention of maintaining confidence? Something that simple can help us stay upright. To worry and fear for and protect our kids is how we parent when they are little. If we want them to mature, [I]we have to change our responses.[/I] We need to learn to parent differently. I think your description of your patterns of interaction with your child was very insightful. If we can see, and then, name the behaviors we would like to change in ourselves, we are nearly there. You are dealing with the emotional realities of what is happening with your child. That is heavy stuff, [I]but you know already how you can come through this in a better emotional place.[/I] Just like it is with our kids, no one can tell us how to do any of this, but you do know already the right next step to take. Good job. :bravo: Cedar [/QUOTE]
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