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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 406699" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>no it's not a federal offense was addressed to her, pyschiatrist office is stupid. shocking...... <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>i've done this before, during the time frame my easy child (computer) broke and i was off board for an extended time frame we were handling easy child craziness than also. we did the cop reports, missing person's i know the drill all too well. it all began when she began to date that piece of ***** that recently dumped her. we brought in home services in to work with-her brought her to weekly therapy until she pulled the i'm done with this stuff. refused to go, refused the in home workers. and we had to shut it down due to fact she was 17 back than. than we handled it in home. she calmed for a period of time it looked as though she was doing well, and we skated by. looked into wilderness camps husband adn i couldnt' swing the loan amt. so she finally became managable out of the blue.</p><p> </p><p>than this began again. she was awesome around time i got married really likes husband, and than difficult child got sick and she began to blow. and its been snowballing ever since. she's in alot of pain i get that i truly do. yet she can't fight the hand that feeds her. i'll do whatever i can to help her she gets that i adore her. yet at the end of the day 18 or not i can't have her telling me what she'll do and when she'll do it. and that's what she did today. she belonged home with-me and difficult child a quiet night making pizza crying if she needed to taking her medications and going to bed.</p><p> </p><p>yet she had to act out and create more drama she loves it. she doesnt' realize it yet she's talking to a pro at it. my entire life has been drama filled majority of times not by my choice or liking situational (dad etc.) so i became accustomed to that functioning level of how well if fuction under fire. she has too i think. difficult child has created such turmoil in our world and i know she resents her greatly. we lack finances due to difficult child and doctor's, a better home, etc. it's all very true infact. yet at the end of the day i told her this if difficult child had a medical issue a physical handicap you could actually see you wouldnt' be angry you would be empathic, yet she doesn't we are in the grey matter all the time. </p><p> </p><p>i've made my mistakes too i'm not one of those parents who say oh no i am all good all the time. no way. i get up each day and say today how can i do better be the best me to them and to myself. and most times i'm good with me in the mirror by the end of it. yet there are times i think i cushioned protected and favored difficult child not meaning to due to all her illnesses and that cup of tea at the dining room table just wasnt' enough for her with-me. than the dinner's out she stopped wanting. shes' very sad truly needs medicine and is going up against alot right now with-o the right person on her side. that person should be me, husband, difficult child her family. not her friends with whom will leave her in a heart beat.</p><p> </p><p>i gotta release from this to stay sane and healthy for me. spoke to detective he said do you think she'll hurt herself. i said honestly in her right mind no. yet add alcohol into it and she's probably drinking tonight i can't say for sure she wouldnt' get herself into trouble somehow and harm herself. even if its' drinking in the woods (unsafe) or being around boys she doesn't know (unsafe) there too much of an eliminate of doubt when alcohol is added in the mix.</p><p> </p><p>difficult child ofcourse is a wreck needless to say.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 406699, member: 4514"] hi no it's not a federal offense was addressed to her, pyschiatrist office is stupid. shocking...... :) i've done this before, during the time frame my easy child (computer) broke and i was off board for an extended time frame we were handling easy child craziness than also. we did the cop reports, missing person's i know the drill all too well. it all began when she began to date that piece of ***** that recently dumped her. we brought in home services in to work with-her brought her to weekly therapy until she pulled the i'm done with this stuff. refused to go, refused the in home workers. and we had to shut it down due to fact she was 17 back than. than we handled it in home. she calmed for a period of time it looked as though she was doing well, and we skated by. looked into wilderness camps husband adn i couldnt' swing the loan amt. so she finally became managable out of the blue. than this began again. she was awesome around time i got married really likes husband, and than difficult child got sick and she began to blow. and its been snowballing ever since. she's in alot of pain i get that i truly do. yet she can't fight the hand that feeds her. i'll do whatever i can to help her she gets that i adore her. yet at the end of the day 18 or not i can't have her telling me what she'll do and when she'll do it. and that's what she did today. she belonged home with-me and difficult child a quiet night making pizza crying if she needed to taking her medications and going to bed. yet she had to act out and create more drama she loves it. she doesnt' realize it yet she's talking to a pro at it. my entire life has been drama filled majority of times not by my choice or liking situational (dad etc.) so i became accustomed to that functioning level of how well if fuction under fire. she has too i think. difficult child has created such turmoil in our world and i know she resents her greatly. we lack finances due to difficult child and doctor's, a better home, etc. it's all very true infact. yet at the end of the day i told her this if difficult child had a medical issue a physical handicap you could actually see you wouldnt' be angry you would be empathic, yet she doesn't we are in the grey matter all the time. i've made my mistakes too i'm not one of those parents who say oh no i am all good all the time. no way. i get up each day and say today how can i do better be the best me to them and to myself. and most times i'm good with me in the mirror by the end of it. yet there are times i think i cushioned protected and favored difficult child not meaning to due to all her illnesses and that cup of tea at the dining room table just wasnt' enough for her with-me. than the dinner's out she stopped wanting. shes' very sad truly needs medicine and is going up against alot right now with-o the right person on her side. that person should be me, husband, difficult child her family. not her friends with whom will leave her in a heart beat. i gotta release from this to stay sane and healthy for me. spoke to detective he said do you think she'll hurt herself. i said honestly in her right mind no. yet add alcohol into it and she's probably drinking tonight i can't say for sure she wouldnt' get herself into trouble somehow and harm herself. even if its' drinking in the woods (unsafe) or being around boys she doesn't know (unsafe) there too much of an eliminate of doubt when alcohol is added in the mix. difficult child ofcourse is a wreck needless to say. [/QUOTE]
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