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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 406721" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>klmno - well that was kinda nasty to be honest and didn't expect that shot from you. it's an enlightening night. no kidding there is major dysfunction, if there wasn't i wouldnt' be here. and yea raising a difficult child as you know yourself hurts other family members. i'm not alone with-her i have other kids here and not just easy child and a husband i also have 2 step kids, who need from me. so it's far from easy. everything does not fall back on difficult child.it's just a fact difficult child has taken front and center since birth due to ALL her issues, it's simple fact easy child has alot of resentment towards difficult child. that's as per a an expert the last therapist easy child talked to for all of two sessions and than stopped going again. difficult child is who she is, and yes it's all grey and yes if it was a medical or a physical ailment she wouldnt' be so resentful i know her. yet she is and almost all of us are dealing in the grey matter here with-our kids. there are no tests to test for bipolar, or this or that. it is what it is. that statement is extremely true that you quoted. i'm sure for not only me yet for other members here and their families. easy child's always get hurt in the shuffle of our difficult child's. it just happens as good of parents we try to be it just happens. as does life.</p><p> </p><p>anyway she's home. i text her that i loved her being out and upset isn't the answer she needs to be home with-me and to stop digging a larger hole and together we'd find a way and sh'ed get thru this. husband also text her. 5 min. later i got a text mom please come get me.</p><p> </p><p>she cried a whole lot i just held her, than she got mad over her best friend her chose she made and she took her medication and i just said sleep tmrw's a new day. she's now passed out. she was a wreck when i got her. and yes her decisions are her own, yet fact remains difficult child has taken up too much of my time and i haven't been able to give to everyone else.my fault. tha'Tourette's Syndrome going to change.</p><p> </p><p>thanks to everyone for all the responses, being there as always and the continued support that i've come to rely on. ((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 406721, member: 4514"] klmno - well that was kinda nasty to be honest and didn't expect that shot from you. it's an enlightening night. no kidding there is major dysfunction, if there wasn't i wouldnt' be here. and yea raising a difficult child as you know yourself hurts other family members. i'm not alone with-her i have other kids here and not just easy child and a husband i also have 2 step kids, who need from me. so it's far from easy. everything does not fall back on difficult child.it's just a fact difficult child has taken front and center since birth due to ALL her issues, it's simple fact easy child has alot of resentment towards difficult child. that's as per a an expert the last therapist easy child talked to for all of two sessions and than stopped going again. difficult child is who she is, and yes it's all grey and yes if it was a medical or a physical ailment she wouldnt' be so resentful i know her. yet she is and almost all of us are dealing in the grey matter here with-our kids. there are no tests to test for bipolar, or this or that. it is what it is. that statement is extremely true that you quoted. i'm sure for not only me yet for other members here and their families. easy child's always get hurt in the shuffle of our difficult child's. it just happens as good of parents we try to be it just happens. as does life. anyway she's home. i text her that i loved her being out and upset isn't the answer she needs to be home with-me and to stop digging a larger hole and together we'd find a way and sh'ed get thru this. husband also text her. 5 min. later i got a text mom please come get me. she cried a whole lot i just held her, than she got mad over her best friend her chose she made and she took her medication and i just said sleep tmrw's a new day. she's now passed out. she was a wreck when i got her. and yes her decisions are her own, yet fact remains difficult child has taken up too much of my time and i haven't been able to give to everyone else.my fault. tha'Tourette's Syndrome going to change. thanks to everyone for all the responses, being there as always and the continued support that i've come to rely on. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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