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easy child, very worried,school refusal
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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 207037" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Sharon! If she hated you, she wouldn't bother telling you! They say what they say to say it and to allow you to hurt as much as they feel that they're hurting. They only strike out at you because they know that Mom's love unconditionally. If she SAYS she hates you, you know you're being a good Mom! (lol)</p><p> </p><p>Stay calm, cool and collected. Don't bother to fight back. Very clearly look her in the eye the next time she tells you she hates you and say:</p><p> </p><p>"It's unfortunate that you feel this way. Let me know when we can talk to one another with respect and I'll be happy to listen to you. If you want advise I'll give it, if you want an ear with no input, I'll gladly provide both, but only when we can sit in the same room respectfully."</p><p> </p><p>Then - walk away. </p><p> </p><p>She's 15, she knows the consequenses of skipping school (no cheering, etc.). Something is really, really weighing her down.</p><p> </p><p>Big hugs, and remember: they are posessed from 13 until 22 or 23! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/devil.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":devil:" title="devil :devil:" data-shortname=":devil:" /></p><p> </p><p>Keep venting, we're here!</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 207037, member: 3814"] Sharon! If she hated you, she wouldn't bother telling you! They say what they say to say it and to allow you to hurt as much as they feel that they're hurting. They only strike out at you because they know that Mom's love unconditionally. If she SAYS she hates you, you know you're being a good Mom! (lol) Stay calm, cool and collected. Don't bother to fight back. Very clearly look her in the eye the next time she tells you she hates you and say: "It's unfortunate that you feel this way. Let me know when we can talk to one another with respect and I'll be happy to listen to you. If you want advise I'll give it, if you want an ear with no input, I'll gladly provide both, but only when we can sit in the same room respectfully." Then - walk away. She's 15, she knows the consequenses of skipping school (no cheering, etc.). Something is really, really weighing her down. Big hugs, and remember: they are posessed from 13 until 22 or 23! :devil: Keep venting, we're here! Beth [/QUOTE]
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