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easy child's moving on sat.
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 419841" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>If SHE already knows she needs you to pay for therapy, help her get a job, cook at least sometimes, etc, then she has no plan and she's doing nothing but manipulating you, Jen. People who move away young and are succesful at getting on with an adult life typically already have a plan. She doesn't have one. But you caving is going to make this manipulation worse.</p><p></p><p>What are you going to do if she doe3sn't leave Sat or leaves for the weekend then calls at some point and says she has no place to stay or sneaks back in? Are you going to throw this plan out the window and say it didn't work? </p><p></p><p>Thhis isn't to criticize, by the way, it's just trying to get you to think thru some things so maybe something can be effective- not in changing her- but changing the dynamics in your house, ultimately- it won't happen in just a few weeks.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 419841, member: 3699"] If SHE already knows she needs you to pay for therapy, help her get a job, cook at least sometimes, etc, then she has no plan and she's doing nothing but manipulating you, Jen. People who move away young and are succesful at getting on with an adult life typically already have a plan. She doesn't have one. But you caving is going to make this manipulation worse. What are you going to do if she doe3sn't leave Sat or leaves for the weekend then calls at some point and says she has no place to stay or sneaks back in? Are you going to throw this plan out the window and say it didn't work? Thhis isn't to criticize, by the way, it's just trying to get you to think thru some things so maybe something can be effective- not in changing her- but changing the dynamics in your house, ultimately- it won't happen in just a few weeks. [/QUOTE]
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