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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 420069" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Hi</p><p> </p><p>I appreciate all the responses, the support it means alot. I'm ina very bad mood today, called the school in a.m. and she didn't go again.</p><p> </p><p>things i will not do:</p><p> </p><p>I will NEVER pay child support to some other mother who took my child in allowed her not to attend school and with-o my consent. over my dead body literally.</p><p> </p><p>I will not ask her again where she will be, show her overwhelming amt of love or caring, or keep pushing for info she refuses to give.</p><p> </p><p>if she was willing to adhere to anything none of this would be happening.</p><p> </p><p>this isn't about me "keeping" her safe, when she leaves she choices to be on her own, except therapy which i said i will def. cover and ofcourse check will be sent to therapist. I do not trust her at all.</p><p> </p><p>I do not think she will thrive in another household. this is a kid who needs an abundance of help who is spiraling out of control and regardless of any gfgness we have had is also very well cared for, loved, and she has driven our home upside down to be honest since 12 when she first got kicked out of school which lead me to move to long island otherwise id' never even of been here.</p><p> </p><p>this isn't a wow shell do great elsewhere, nor is this a similar situation with i wouldnt' call a parent ifa kid slept here. your right i wouldn't. yet if a kid was showing up here in middle of night, missing school next day i would def. be on a phone. that is being a responsible parent. whoever this loser is is not a responsible parent. i dont' care if easy child is sitting there saying she beats me than call the cops on me. yet you do not let a kid her age sleep in at your home, miss school be out till 5 a.m. it's all bs.</p><p> </p><p>i will as said earlier wish her well, i will not in any way shape or form set nights for her to come eat here, supply her with a job or anything else clothes,, prom dresses etc. thsi mom wants to take her in GOOD LUCK TO HER IS WHAT I SAY.</p><p> </p><p>yes i'm speaking in a bit of anger today. dont' get offended it is somewhat of a vent. yet truth be known i'm not at all concerned about child support, cops knocking on my door etc. i have been backed up by her therapist, spoke toher school today. so i covered my bases.</p><p> </p><p>it's ok to have problems, it's even ok to hurt yet to walk all ove rme for the amt of time she has, lie, steal, cheat, etc. not ok on any level at all. so i'm done and tired of being her doormat. i will always love her yet i will def. be working hard at lettting go.</p><p> </p><p>i found a new therapist that deals strictly with kids parenting this type of junk i made appointment for monday for me. wish sat. was tomorrow. i'm not hoping she changes her mind. bottom line is if she can't adhere to rules and respect us than she can leave, i'm done and tired of it. yet i gotta be healthy to make me ok and to get the rest of my family thru this. husband who is well a really touch kinda guy almost cried last night he was so upset over it.</p><p> </p><p>i love all of you dont' take this as me being nasty i'm slightly venting too just upsetting situation and well im giong to get thru this one way or another. we all do afterall, dont' we?? <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>iv'e run the gammet with-this kid between her running away ona nd off past two years,her failing out of schol when she was 12. her sleeping around with guys, not protecting herself, stealing my belongings, lying to me, cheating on state tests i had to meet with school officials, than getting arrested. she's a train wreck. i'm so over blaming myself at this point. i've given my blood, sweat, tears every ounce of energy i have to this kdii who thinks she's been ignored by difficult child world. it's bs i have always given to both of them, i sat and quietly reviewed it and double checked our life what i've done. i'm good. i'm giong to ride a horse today husband said listen you gotta go be alone smell some horse ****, your a mess today....... go u need it.</p><p> </p><p>thank god this husband i was giong to toss is being an anchor right now let's hope it stays that way</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 420069, member: 4514"] Hi I appreciate all the responses, the support it means alot. I'm ina very bad mood today, called the school in a.m. and she didn't go again. things i will not do: I will NEVER pay child support to some other mother who took my child in allowed her not to attend school and with-o my consent. over my dead body literally. I will not ask her again where she will be, show her overwhelming amt of love or caring, or keep pushing for info she refuses to give. if she was willing to adhere to anything none of this would be happening. this isn't about me "keeping" her safe, when she leaves she choices to be on her own, except therapy which i said i will def. cover and ofcourse check will be sent to therapist. I do not trust her at all. I do not think she will thrive in another household. this is a kid who needs an abundance of help who is spiraling out of control and regardless of any gfgness we have had is also very well cared for, loved, and she has driven our home upside down to be honest since 12 when she first got kicked out of school which lead me to move to long island otherwise id' never even of been here. this isn't a wow shell do great elsewhere, nor is this a similar situation with i wouldnt' call a parent ifa kid slept here. your right i wouldn't. yet if a kid was showing up here in middle of night, missing school next day i would def. be on a phone. that is being a responsible parent. whoever this loser is is not a responsible parent. i dont' care if easy child is sitting there saying she beats me than call the cops on me. yet you do not let a kid her age sleep in at your home, miss school be out till 5 a.m. it's all bs. i will as said earlier wish her well, i will not in any way shape or form set nights for her to come eat here, supply her with a job or anything else clothes,, prom dresses etc. thsi mom wants to take her in GOOD LUCK TO HER IS WHAT I SAY. yes i'm speaking in a bit of anger today. dont' get offended it is somewhat of a vent. yet truth be known i'm not at all concerned about child support, cops knocking on my door etc. i have been backed up by her therapist, spoke toher school today. so i covered my bases. it's ok to have problems, it's even ok to hurt yet to walk all ove rme for the amt of time she has, lie, steal, cheat, etc. not ok on any level at all. so i'm done and tired of being her doormat. i will always love her yet i will def. be working hard at lettting go. i found a new therapist that deals strictly with kids parenting this type of junk i made appointment for monday for me. wish sat. was tomorrow. i'm not hoping she changes her mind. bottom line is if she can't adhere to rules and respect us than she can leave, i'm done and tired of it. yet i gotta be healthy to make me ok and to get the rest of my family thru this. husband who is well a really touch kinda guy almost cried last night he was so upset over it. i love all of you dont' take this as me being nasty i'm slightly venting too just upsetting situation and well im giong to get thru this one way or another. we all do afterall, dont' we?? :) iv'e run the gammet with-this kid between her running away ona nd off past two years,her failing out of schol when she was 12. her sleeping around with guys, not protecting herself, stealing my belongings, lying to me, cheating on state tests i had to meet with school officials, than getting arrested. she's a train wreck. i'm so over blaming myself at this point. i've given my blood, sweat, tears every ounce of energy i have to this kdii who thinks she's been ignored by difficult child world. it's bs i have always given to both of them, i sat and quietly reviewed it and double checked our life what i've done. i'm good. i'm giong to ride a horse today husband said listen you gotta go be alone smell some horse ****, your a mess today....... go u need it. thank god this husband i was giong to toss is being an anchor right now let's hope it stays that way [/QUOTE]
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